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New Blog | I'm Moving!!

2011-06-17T19:18:00.005-05:00

I've been a very bad blogger as of late--not because I cannot find time to blog, but because I have outgrown this concept. It's been over two years here at Survivin' on Coffee and Dreams, and although it's been lovely, the time for a new journey is now.

So, grab your mouse, update your readers and bookmarks, and join me over at:

Can't wait to see you there!!! Your first post is already waiting...

Ms. V Sneak Peek

2011-06-14T20:08:00.002-05:00

Isn't she lovely?

Delicious Dessert | Rhubarb Cake

2011-06-05T16:10:00.015-05:00

With rhubarb season comes many delicious desserts, so I've decided to make the selection process easier for you, dear readers, by bringing you my simple go-to recipe. Although I grew up in a family where boxed cake was considered cheating, I have no problems making an exception for this dessert. Enjoy (in moderation--if you can)!!

1 quart sliced, fresh rhubarb
1 cup sugar (2/3 cup for fruit other than rhubarb)
1 (3-oz.) package strawberry flavored gelatin
1 (18-oz.) white or yellow dry cake mix--I use the butter yellow
2 cups water
1/2 cup margarine, melted--I use real butter

Directions

Arrange the sliced rhubarb in the bottom of a 9x13 baking dish (I use glass).
Sprinkle the dry ingredients over the fruit in the order listed: sugar, gelatin, cake mix. Try to make your layers as even as possible for the best results.
Pour the water over the mixture slowly, so as not to displace the dry mixture. (You want to try to carefully moisten the entire top for even baking--otherwise you'll get dry patches of mix in your final result.)
Pour the butter, or margarine, over the top.
Bake at 350 for 50-60 minutes. (With a glass baking dish I notice a shorter cooking time--usually completely cooked by 50 minutes at the latest, so make sure you adjust your cooking time to your oven and bakeware)
Serve warm with milk or cold with whipped cream. (It's a very sweet dish and does not require ice cream. If you're curious, I prefer it warm with cream.)

Original Recipe found in Mennonite Country-Style Recipes & Kitchen Secrets, Esther H. Shank

I Love My Kitties Dearly

2011-06-03T22:18:00.001-05:00

An original, lunch-break poem by yours truly.

Our bathroom smells like cat pee*
I don't know what to do
I love my kitties dearly
But they should be in a zoo

They're cute and cuddly furballs
Until they start to chew
They rearrange the rugs
And throw up in my shoe

I am hoping that my landlord
Overlooks the windowsills
They've clawed them up quite nicely
(one of their many kitty "skills")

They're the source of many headaches
And also many bills
One of them, everyday
Has to take two pills

I love my kitties dearly
You wouldn't understand
I know they sound quite horrid
But they really are quite grand

Diddy's a survivor
Who purrs the nicest tune
While Ari is a charmer
And also a buffoon

I love my kitties dearly
So I permeate this blog
With pictures of the cuteness
To serve me as a log
Of just how much I love them
All the funny things they do
For when I've had it to my eyebrows
And would like to bid "Adieu!"

I hope you do not mind
The space that's used for them
And this, newest installment
Their very own po-em

Note: I never said anything about it being "good." I merely claimed to have written it while on my lunch break--which is entirely true.

I was inspired to write a poem after reading my mother's post. Check it out.

*This is a new development as of this morning, in companion with the insane humidity. I am in the process of remedying this unpleasantry. Wifey FTW!

Phew!

2011-06-01T20:58:00.001-05:00

While I was away I...

turned 24--one year until the "quarter life crisis!"

graduated from college--kind of (I'm not officially "done" until August 5th)

styled a photo shoot for my parents, husband, and myself to celebrate the pending completion of my degree

wrote and submitted my first grant

took the second practice exam to prepare for my NHA licensure

started doing yoga again

experienced my first employer "rebrand"

helped plant our nursing home's garden in a JCrew dress/hat

began training for my next race

officially entered the job market

But now I'm back and really looking forward to the challenges of the next few months!!

And by the way, I've missed you all dearly.

Kitty Heaven

2011-05-19T21:23:00.001-05:00

The family cat of 20+ years passed today. I took it really hard for two reasons:

1. Olivia has been with my family an incredibly long time and I loved her
2. My lil miracle kitty, Diddy, is still in a one-sie growing skin and fur after his liver failure. I am so grateful for his fighting will everyday. Olivia's death certainly reinforced this gratuity.

After I told Ari and Diddy about their cousin Olivia's passing I asked them what "Kitty Heaven" was like. Ari decided to show me:

If Kitty Heaven is half that good I'm sure Olivia will love it.

Rest in peace Olivia. We had a great life together. Time for God to get some time with such an amazing feline. Thank you for being my first kitty.

VBall 2011

2011-05-17T22:28:00.001-05:00

Okay, I've teased you long enough. Now that the event photos are in I'm ready to recap.

Husband and I were in desperate need of a magical night, so we put on our dancing shoes...

and headed out for a delicious, pre-ball dinner. I got the Steak Napoleon stuffed with Gorgonzola. He got the Grilled Duck Pasta. I'm really glad we ended up sharing entrees--they were both delicious!!! Then we headed off to the ball!

Once we checked in and checked our coats we headed straight to the photographer to beat the rush.

Phew, can I unscrew my smile now and stuff my face again?! We had passed on dessert at the restaurant because we knew we wanted to take full advantage of the torte bar at the ball. I'm really glad we held out. Om nom nom!

We waltzed, spent a lot of time in the jazz lounge, and just enjoyed being transported to Vienna without leaving the comfort of United States. It was a lovely escape from our day-to-day lives...

When we woke the next morning, husband rolled over and told me he'd had a wonderful time. Then he asked me if I'd be willing to take him again next year...

But of course, dear!

The Ball Pictures Are In...

2011-05-13T19:49:00.001-05:00

Which means I'll be getting to that recap next!!

Mother's Day

2011-05-08T20:47:00.001-05:00

Ironically, I've already written about one mother today {Mother Nature}, but up until recently I haven't been too happy with her. What I'd love to tell you about is my WONDERFUL mother--Barb. She's the kind of mom that wears Birkenstocks to your wedding reception, knows how to fix everything and generally makes you smile. She introduces you to the benefits of loose tea versus tea bags and afterwards, you swear you'll never go back. She is also an amazing cook, so you enjoy going to her place for holidays--natch. Most recently, husband and I joined her and my father at their country home for Easter.

We christened her new teapot...

Had a rousing 'ole laugh about the celebratory toast we chose...

Followed her instructions carefully...

And Viola! Muy delicioso!!

Then she pulled out these... bite-sized carrot cakes!!

I love her and can assure you there is no one I would rather be in a car with for six hours.

Why six hours you say? Tomorrow, once I leave work, we will be on our way to attend the funeral of my last grandparent in Iowa--my father's mother (she passed May 5th). It is weird for me to think that I am no longer anyone's grandchild...

It is incredibly important to celebrate the little moments while you can--that includes new teapots! So please, make sure you take the opportunity to cherish your mother and not just today... EVERYDAY. Their time with us on this Earth is so precious.

Seriously Mother Nature?

2011-05-08T10:36:00.001-05:00

It's not shocking to me that I have fallen behind on my blog... not because I have nothing to say or share, but because the April Wisco weather was driving me crazy!! {It was seriously like Mother Nature's own Katy Perry song.}

We went from the commencement of storm season--complete with record numbers of tornadoes and crazy amounts of rain...

To snow...

To 70-degrees and sunny... in a matter of days.

The grass and flowers didn't think all the rain was that bad, but we've all still been in desperate need of some sun. Aside from the May Day marathon fiasco, this month seems to be shaping up much better. Now these favorable conditions are forcing me away from this little creative space and out into the yard for the morning. More posting later today... lots to catch up on both here and around the house before I leave town for a funeral.

So glad we're having beautiful weather today for all the mother's out there. By the way, have you gotten the chance to get to know mine? She's wonderful.

(Not) A Marathoner (Yet...)

2011-05-02T20:57:00.005-05:00

I have so much to share!! But I must first reveal the primary reason I've been gone from my blog for the last week--I was preparing for the May 1st Eau Claire Marathon!! Eeks!

Yesterday was exhilarating/hellish, but it wasn't because of the hills. When I signed up for the Eau Claire marathon I knew it was going to be a challenge because of the hilly course. It really doesn't level out much until mile 12. After that there are still two more towards the end, including one right at the end--which I consider to be a violation of the 8th Amendment (cruel and unusual punishment). But you don't need me to tell you all that when you can see for yourself:

via Eau Claire Marathon

I wasn't very public about my intent to complete this course simply because a lot of things can come up between December 29 and May 1, but April 30th found me commitment free and saying my prayers. I prayed for strength and endurance before snuggling into my incredibly comfortable bed and dozing off to pre-race dreamland.

In hindsight, I wish I would have prayed for good weather... As of May 1st I have seen hell and it is killer head winds during a marathon.

The day started out cold, but I was dressed adequately and ready to go! (I have never been this pumped for a race in my life.) Inspite of my excitement, the first part was rather uneventful--probably because I grew up in the area, so I was familiar with the landmarks and the general route. Here's the course:

via Eau Claire Marathon

Between mile 5 and 6 the group split--the half-marathon course looped back into the city while the marathoners ventured out into the middle of nowhere (the pack thinned quite a bit at this point since most people run the half). I paced it slow knowing I had a long ways to go--reaching the 10K mark in a loping 1:17:11. Uphill, uphill, uphill, uphill it seemed never ceasing, but I made it. Once I reached the point up by the airport my iPod started playing Sweet Serendipity... it was like a personal jam session on top of the world. I enjoyed the moment and pushed through until mile 12 before the WIND killed my stride. I COULD BARELY STAND UP let alone run... or even walk for that matter.

From that point on the course opened up to the elements and became a 106-pound redhead versus raging windstorm {spoiler: I lost}. I got the report today that the winds were consistently between 20 and 40 mph in Eau Claire. It was awful. To put it in perspective... I ran a lousy ten out east a month ago in 2:02:49... my half-marathon time yesterday? 2:50:49 Ugh. Regardless, at that point I was still in really good spirits and continued make remarks like:

"This wind is AWFUL... it really BLOWS."

We only got about a half mile where the wind was in our favor 13.5-14, so I spent the next 6ish miles jogging/walking/fighting ~~for my life~~ to stand upright clocking in at the 20-split over an hour and a half later (4:29:50) Newsflash... it does NOT take an hour and forty minutes to go 6.5 miles... it just doesn't. The gap between those two times provides an excellent testament to the simple fact that I could barely stand up. A number of times the wind actually moved me mid-stride--frustrating.

In addition to the exhausting battle I was raging against the wind... my body started to temp down around mile 15. By 16 my teeth were chattering and I had zero capillary refill in my fingers--even though they had been inside running gloves. Mile 17 I downed another GU, with my gloves on because I was shaking so hard I couldn't remove them (remind me to wash those gloves...). Mile 18 I was so far beyond shivering I was flat out convulsing with no control over my breathing whatsoever. With no good place to stop I pushed on to the 20-mile split first aid station where I was given a blanket and placed into a heated Honda. It was then I knew that May 1, 2011 would not be the day I would become a marathoner.

It took 45-minutes in a heated environment before my body would stop shaking. Needless to say, the EC course and I have another date... next year, and it will be personal; but all that aside, three great things came out of yesterday:

Even though I didn't finish, I still get to keep my sweet performance shirt =)
I feel like everyone needs a momentous first marathon experience--makes for a better story
I got the marathon bug

People asked if I went into yesterday with any goals... no. I did go in with the intent to, "avoid...":

Ambulances/hospitals
Finishing last

Well, I barely made those, but still... first aid station? Not an ambulance or hospital. 311th out of 316? Not last either.

I have seen hell and yet returned all smiles. This experience helped me grow so much--as an individual and a runner. It truly taught me how to shelve my pride and call it quits when needed. Parting words: Don't be afraid to fail, within those challenges will be some of your greatest lessons.

Keep on running!

Saving the Us | Spring Cleaning

2011-04-23T19:02:00.000-05:00

Spring cleaning has been a major theme in our life this past month. I had to revamp my office arrangement for the third time since starting my internship while husband began to give the basement a major overhaul. Amidst all that boxing, gifting, and dusting we got to thinking...

What would happen if we "spring cleaned" our relationship?

Over the midwestern winter months I know that I, like many, get antsy for spring to arrive so I can throw open the windows and let all that delicious spring air into our home. Considering all the hardships we've faced since marriage, it would behoove us to clear the air in our relationship as well. So, in the spirit of season, we dared to ask the following questions...

What if we treated every day for the next month like we were meeting each other for the first time?

How would our behaviors change?

What can I do today to encourage this other person to continue traveling with me on this journey?

These questions provide the foundation for our newest challenge. Perhaps some of our realizations can benefit you and your relationships--that is our hope and the reason we continue to share this journey.

Have a wonderful Easter Sunday, dear readers!!

From Business to Swan Princess in Five Minutes or Less

2011-04-21T21:42:00.001-05:00

This past week was National Volunteer Week, and every year, the hospital I am working at hosts a volunteer appreciation brunch to make the occasion. Last year, our volunteers logged over 8,000 hours; so the theme this year was quite fitting--You are the heros of our story. Volunteers were asked to dress in theme {predominantly prince and princess} and come enjoy brunch, as well as the vocal stylings of some local high school students--featuring songs from their fairytale, spring musical Into the Woods.

The night before the event I had a startling realization... all of my gowns and tiaras were stowed safely at my parents!! What was I to do?? I knew I wouldn't have time to fully change outfits anyway, so I quickly picked the following.

a white, strapless knee length dress

white pumps

H&M light, blue pinstripe blazer
+
cobalt blue tulle wrap with sequin details
elbow length cobalt gloves
feather & sparkle headband

=
business to swan princess and back again in five minutes {great success!}

I figured the blue pieces served two purposes-- 1) made it more "princess-y" and 2) could represent water. *Phew* Crisis averted.

It was a lovely event, and I'm so glad my aunt-in-law was able to attend and be recognized for her service. See the flashy red riding hood apparel? Quite the pair, I must say.

{The flower was a post photo addition to cover her name tag}

One of the volunteers donned Elvis apparel for the event (cause he's the king...) and when complemented on his outfit he quite fittingly came back with a perfect impersonation of...

Thank you, thank you very much

And remember, volunteers are like frosted flakes... they're GRRRREAT!

Anthropologie | Gold Tea-And-Crumpets Apron

2011-04-18T20:54:00.002-05:00

Gold Tea-and-Crumpets apron via Anthropologie

Whether making tea-and-crumpets or an asian-inspired dinner...

this sweet little apron's color palette serves as a daily reminder of our wedding. Factor in that it also reminds me of a great, east coast adventure with three best friends... and I adore it. Although I'm a good cook without it, I feel invincible with it. (I whipped up the above in 30 minutes!!)

I am smitten with a number of Anthro's apron, but this one deserved to be my first. It's so perfect and so, well... me! Thank you Anthropologie--raise of the mug to you!!

Ball Teaser

2011-04-16T11:25:00.003-05:00

Last night was a BALL (pun intended)! Nothing like some moody, nighttime lighting and an industrial location to start off the weekend. It was a very dreary, cold evening (read: snow in April), but we had a grand time nonetheless. We even braved the temps for an artsy shoot to commemorate the experience. In fact, Ben and I enjoyed ourselves so much, we plan to go again next year (insert happy dance here)!!

Coming Up...

2011-04-14T21:26:00.002-05:00

Many wonderful posts in store for you lovelies, featuring these topics--in no specific order:

From Business to Swan Princess in Five Minutes or Less

My new Anthropologie Apron

Commencement of Storm Season

My internship is more than half done... what next??

and last, but certainly not least., various posts highlighting...

THE BALL!

For now I must scurry--so much to do before I have a chance to get some beauty sleep. Then up at 0600 for a full day at the office before I dash to my hair appointment and then dance the night away.

Have a wonderful night and Friday, dear readers!!

row {Homes} houses

2011-04-11T20:37:00.001-05:00

While out east I found myself enchanted by the row houses. For the first time since La Crosse, I could picture husband and I shopping at the farmer's market, meandering around with a stroller, walking a dog, savoring a cuppa coffee, or just generally enjoying life. I don't know why these little numbers had me so entranced. Partially because they're, well... so little, in the middle of town, have zero yard space, and are practically stacked on top of the neighbors--all negatives in my book. Factor in the $$$$$$$$$$$$$ price tag and I really can't nail down what had me all gaga. Perhaps it's a combination of big city charm and the focus on the unique? When you can compare similar things side by side like that, their individual characteristics really stand out. Whatever the reason... le sigh.

What I do know is this...

Seeing those houses meant that for the first time in a long time I seriously thought about creating a "home" with my husband. That forward-thinking, future mentality is something I've really missed in our relationship, so I'm glad that it has returned.
We'd have to have a blue front door... my husband adores Notting Hill.

Georgetown Cupcake

2011-04-10T13:04:00.001-05:00

I do not think one can visit Washington D.C. without paying a visit to Georgetown Cupcake. It's TLC show DC Cupcake has made it a phenomenon that is difficult to ignore. We went on a Monday and were greeted by the following menu for the day:

The interior is quaint, with only a few tables; therefore, someone is posted at the door to control how many people enter the shop at a time. We actually didn't mind the line (read: we were too busy enjoying the 80-degree weather and the sun). Once we got in and ordered we managed to snag one of the limited tables and were immediately distracted by the gorgeous centerpieces.

I ordered vanilla birthday (left) and chocolate and vanilla (right). They were both good, albeit very sweet, so I didn't actually finish either in their entirety. Although I feel I must note, even though I am a chocolate-lover, I ate considerably more of the vanilla birthday.

If you're in the D.C. area you should definitely make a stop by Georgetown Cupcake (to say that you did), then swing by Baked and Wired--I don't have any pictures of my carrot cupcake because I was too excited to eat it!! We went to Baked and Wired Tuesday afternoon before making our way to the airport. Their cupcakes were about twice the size, and I definitely preferred the frosting.

Now, I want to get my hands on a Georgetown carrot so I can do an apples-to-apples comparison, but until then, this concludes my little cupcake adventure!! Sorry, I did not bring home samples =)

I'm Back!!

2011-04-08T19:26:00.001-05:00

Photo Cred: Andrea

Sorry I have been MIA for so long. I am happy to report that I am back in Wisconsin safe and sound {complete with fabulous new hat!} after a trip to D.C. and our Spring Module on campus . Full report to start tomorrow lovelies. Oh, how I have missed thee, let me count the ways...

Hope this post finds you all well!!

After 3 months...

2011-03-26T18:48:00.000-05:00

Diddy is home!!! He's "helping" me do laundry and internship paperwork today. (Looks to me like he's just getting hair all over the clean clothes in my dresser, but since he's still pretty fragile... I'll give him credit for effort)

Our beloved feline must take hepatic support pills for the remainder of his life--morning AND evening. Good thing we can't put a price on this lil guy because with a nearly $1700 vet bill and a prescription every month he's certainly getting up there.

We're ecstatic that he's home. We're fighting less, and our other cat Ari James seems exponentially happier. Apparently we have all been stressed out by the ordeal--very grateful to finally have our little furry family reunited.

I don't have much time, still trying to conquer internship paperwork; regardless, I wanted to take a quick moment to let everyone know he's home and doing well (read: I'm not going to show you his crazy scars and lack of hair). We have appreciated the ongoing outpouring of love and support--nearly losing him in January was awful.

Raise of the mug to our lil fighter--no one can doubt his street cred now!! =)

And a BIG mug raise to the parents, especially mi madre, for all the tender loving care and travel to multiple vet appointments!

Saving the Us | Rediscovering the Way

2011-03-22T19:16:00.001-05:00

Somewhere in the midst of 55+ hour work weeks and dirty dishes--we lost our groove. Anyone who knows us will know how tragic that really is because a) Ben and I were like peanut butter and jelly and b) one of my all-time favorite movies speaks to the concept (hint: it involves a llama).

The last time we were completely absorbed in each other, oblivious to commitments, bank account, and societal expectations... we were on the dance floor. Connecting with someone to music is a powerful thing--and it isn't easily forgotten either. I've heard it said, "the quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach." Not surprisingly, the quickest way to mine requires some footwork.

You may remember last year about this time... when I had just begun to look at dresses for the spring ball. Of course, something came up so we didn't buy tickets; however, this year... the tickets are already on our bedroom dresser!!

Ben and I really haven't seen a whole lot of each other as of late, so I'm giddy with anticipation when I think about that moment where everything else melts away and it's just the two of us--rediscovering our rhythm, our groove. Nothing tops it. Dancing truly is the way to my heart.

But what would my husband cite as his...?

We've been together almost five years... I know I've asked. I know he's responded; nevertheless, somewhere in the midst of work, school, and the hardships we've faced... it slipped away. So I asked him.

Again.

You know what he said?
Laughter.

What a great answer--how I love him so, and after all these years... we're still a great match.

His Senior Prom circa 2007

You're Doing It Wrong...

2011-03-07T22:00:00.000-06:00

For my second freelance piece, I drew on stories from this blog and recent events. Hope you enjoy!

You’re Doing It Wrong...

I am of the opinion that we should never find ourselves choking back the phrase, “Hey you, you’re doing it wrong!” We all commit those little life faux pas; perhaps some of us just haven’t realized it because no one was “nice enough” to take advantage of an opportunity to educate.

C’mon. We’re at an institution of higher learning. Shouldn’t we be able to help our fellow human out without being thought of as a complete jerk? At some point, someone has to speak up--might as well be you.

Hence, I am here with a compilation of examples for your amusement, er... education. These are moments where I truly wish I would have taken the opportunity to teach. I hope after this composition you will be better prepared to address the day-to-day blunders that cross YOUR path.

Labeling--You’re Doing It Wrong...

My mother and I went to the pet store to get some Ivermectin for our llamas. We use a product that is made for horses because it is recommended for llamas, which have similar physical attributes. This is where it got weird. We picked up the product off the shelf and the back of the box read: "...This product is not for use in horses. It is intended for human consumption. This product is not intended for humans..." Wait, what? Was that even English?

The front of the product had a picture of a horse on it, which reinforced our puzzlement. The Pet Store employees are contacting the manufacturer. Apparently the "person" working in their technical writing division is in fact an equestrian. Labeling--you’re clearly doing it wrong.

Eating--You’re doing it wrong...

Last year, I watched a young lady in front of me enjoy her Starbucks beverage with her finger. This was highly distracting as I happened to be in Marketing class at the time. No, Starbucks did not run out of straws--she cast hers aside like last year's ugly sweater. And no, I have absolutely no idea why she elected the pointer-finger technique for this particular blended drink. I considered educating her about the lip-to-cup method, introducing her to a spoon, and/or reminding her about the ridiculous colonization of germs on her digits. You would think that all that H1N1 publicity would have sunk it. Apparently not.

It has been proven that the flu virus can survive outside of a human host for days. Case and point, the virus survived on a dollar bill for four days; although the use of currency may not be a fair example because we all know American currency is questionable when it comes to sanitation. Chamillionaire states it quite well in his rap song Good Morning with the lyrics--"dirty money got me sanitizin' my hands, Lord knows what the previous owner did with his grands..." Dirty has more than one connotation in that instance, but the illustration holds nonetheless. Regardless, eating--you’re doing it wrong. And hand-washing... I hope you’re doing that right.

Baking--You’re doing it wrong...

I must deviate from my format a little for this one, because this is one of those moments where I sincerely wish someone would have been there to say, “Um, you’re doing that wrong.” Yes, it happens to me too. I mean, I’ve made the Dean’s list a handful of times, but apparently the art of baking a frozen pizza eludes me. This past week I preheated the oven, unwrapped the pizza, placed said pizza in the refrigerator, set the timer, and then headed into the living room to start a movie. Eight minutes later, I was expecting the delicious aroma of a nearly baked pizza; instead, I had to play hide and go cheese in my fridge. Baking--definitely did that wrong.

Compromise--You’re doing it wrong...

Scott Walker.

Leave of Absence

2011-03-02T20:38:00.000-06:00

I am a blogger, yes... but first and foremost I am a full-time intern/full-time student/wife/daughter/friend. Right now is a critical time in my internship, and I need absolutely every second I have in order to get things done to the standard I would like. In the midst of all that... I'm even moving all of my things at work to a new space tomorrow! Chaos I tell you!!! CHAOS.

For now I'm chasing the bottom of the coffee cup... trying to heal an injured ankle before our ten-mile run in Washington D.C.... and trying to maintain my sanity.

I'll catch up with you all soon. Lots of love!

Natural Hair Care: Day 58ish?

2011-02-25T22:16:00.002-06:00

Remember my attempts to rid my hair of harmful parabens and sodium laurel sulfates {and sodium laureth sulfates}? If not, see here and here.

Shampoo bars work for many individuals; however, our water type made it a tedious switch. I never quite got the balance right either. Enter Onesta--an easy alternative. Now, I 'm not going to try to recreate the wheel. You can read all about the company and its products on their site. I will say this, though, I love it and have been using it for awhile now. The shampoo lathers well and both products smell wonderful--leaves my hair extremely soft and clean.

Love love love!

Wonderful products and images via Onesta

Note: I have a lot of love for Soap for Goodness Sake and am still relying on the products I indicated in this post

{aside from the shampoo bar & the shaving soap} Have to love that EWG zero rating AND the fantastic service! Win-win.

Any healthy, safe, natural beauty products you simply swear by??

Winter Engagement Shoot: J + A

2011-02-23T02:54:00.001-06:00

Illness and insomnia are apparently interrelated, so here I sit editing photos. Not that I'm complaining mind you because I'm madly in love with numbers 3, 4, and 9!

Saving the Us | Where do we start?

2011-02-22T11:42:00.005-06:00

Still sick, so we'll proceed with the next post early--expect future installments in this series weekly.

Now that we are going to work on being more accountable to our relationship we decided that we needed a concrete starting point. We agreed that point should be some "relationship commandments." These commandments are meant to be short, simple, and meaningful--ultimately laying the groundwork for our growth.

* * *

The Commandments

Thou shalt remember thy vows. We both took them. Do we remember exactly what we promised? {If the answer is no, we need to dig them out again and look them over.} This commandment will be the anchor for all other efforts since it encompasses our love and commitment.
Thou shalt pardon your partner for past resentments. We cannot work on current problems if our minds are pre-occupied with previous offenses. This commandment must be followed for a relationship to go forward happily.
Thou shalt change the way one handles conflict. With the first two commandments we reaffirm our love, commitment and willingness to move forward. Fair fighting will provide us the tool for that forward motion.

Two and three are going to be our biggest challenges, by far. Once we identified these three commandments for us we took it a step further by drilling down into three things each of us really desire from the other person.

His Wish List for Her

Support my professional goals. Yes, I want to pursue FireMedic again when you've finished your degree. I know it's hard and the hours are rough, but I crave your complete support for this decision. I understand that it isn't the safest thing I could be doing and that sometimes you worry. Trust me. Support me. I want to do this with you by my side.
Be more affectionate.
Quit nagging. You never used to do this, and I wish you wouldn't now. It's awful being on the other end of this behavior.

Her Wish List for Him

Talk to me. Remember when we would go to bed and you would talk to me even after I fell asleep? Some of those times I hadn't quite drifted off yet. I miss hearing your thoughts in those quiet times. It was in those moments that I learned the most about you. May I have that back? Can I?
Follow through. Often you volunteer to do things, and I appreciate that, but I feel it is a useless gesture if you don't actually complete what you volunteered to do {Brownie points for completion within your established timetable}. This seems interrelated to your desire for less nagging, so it will take a real team effort to break this vicious cycle.
Remember the adoration. There was a time, not so long ago, when I believed you would walk across hot coals just to be closer to me. I was your goddess, your princess, and you put me on a pedestal. I never asked to be put there, but now that I'm not I miss the adoring gestures that came with such an honored place in your life. I've said hurtful things and fear that because of them I will never obtain that "adored" status every again. Le sigh. Can we start over? Hi, I'm Hannah...

The Gottman's remind us that "choosing a mate is choosing a set of problems you can live with; research says 69% of the problems married couples have aren't resolvable." They also say that if you are only capable of doing two things to improve your relationship it should be these: 1) become better friends, and 2) change the way you handle conflict. We've addressed conflict in our commandments. We'll get to friendship, the unresolvable, and the qualities that initially brought us together later in this series. For now, we have our foundation set--our roadmap--as we seek to truly rediscover our love.

Saving the Us | Divorce

2011-02-21T14:18:00.004-06:00

I'm home from work today, after falling down a flight of exterior stairs and winding up with a fever. I decided that this would be a good opportunity for this post because I have the time to organize my thoughts.

I feel that some bloggers only allow the sunny times to appear in their online space. Their blog is used as an opportunity for them to escape some of the less desirable portions of their life--it almost seems like allowing the negative to permeate their self created world of perfection would be too difficult to bear. I am not one of these bloggers, so here I go addressing the elephant in the corner of my room--divorce.

Yes, my husband and I have talked about it. Yes, we're still together. So then why in God's name am I having this discussion on an open blog read by family and friends?!?

Because this is MY blog. It is meant to document and share my life. Sometimes that means finding ways to breach difficult topics. So, everyone exhale and chill out because I'm not continuing until you are calm.

Are you calm yet? If not, take some time and come back later when you are... everyone else, let's continue.

* * *

I feel that the majority of the population feels that discussions of divorce mean you have already reached the end. I disagree. My husband and I have discussed the repercussions of such a decision and ultimately how it would affect us in the long-term. Do I wish we could have avoided the conversation all together? Sure, but I am a realist and he is my husband. I would still be curious to know how he felt about divorce, the weight he personally places on our vows, etcetera. There's a reason I'm a cat lover--I'm one curious young lady.

This all began when Ben and I began committing the sins the Gottman's refer to as the Four Horseman of the Apocolypse--stonewalling, defensiveness, criticism, and contempt. {not so much that last one, which is the ULTIMATE destructive behavior, but it has creeped its way in occasionally} Now's the part where I play the blame game. I blame life. Remember this? {Survivin' on...???} Since then we have managed to crash a vehicle, which was more devastating than I care to let on, and Ben's income situation hasn't improved much--in fact I would go so far as to say that we are worse off financially than we were then. Combine all that with me being at the most stressful point of my internship and you have yourself the recipe for a perfect storm.

So what? Life's been hard... that doesn't mean we should allow our hearts to be hardened as well. Which is why today we agreed to take ownership--to stop blaming circumstances beyond our control. We choose how we interact everyday. We choose how much we fight, but more importantly how we fight when we do. We must be accountable for the success of this marriage. Ultimately, we want these trials to have made us stronger... not to have left a perfect love beyond repair.

Chapter Two of The Happiness Project--February--is titled "Remember Love." We remember it... and we dream of how it used to be. It has served as a wake up call. This isn't the end... it as an opportunity to reacquire that incandescent happiness of 2008--that is our mission and we will stop at nothing less. Hence, we are entitling the blog series documenting our efforts // Saving the Us: One couple's journey to rediscovering the love of their youth...

* * *

Now comes the part where you help "Save the Us." Please don't call us, panicked, looking for further explanation. We don't really want to talk on the phone for hours about our relationship because frankly, the intimate details of our lives aren't really something we choose to discuss with others. This may not be a courtroom but we will still cite "spousal privilege" as a defense for this choice. We want this series, Saving the Us, to be about the journey, the progression, the hope--not the gossip... and also not the, "well why did you talk to them and not me?!"

The best thing you can do at this point is just continue to be great friends. We love you all and appreciate your support. We'd greatly appreciate your prayers and well-wishes as we embark on this journey!!

Transformation

2011-02-20T11:59:00.003-06:00

I don't even know where to start. The Happiness Project is changing my life. I have a more in-depth post in the works, but in the meantime here are some highlights. In the past two weeks my husband and I have de-cluttered our tiny abode, found more time to cook, started crossing off those nagging to-do's and on top of it... I've gotten closer to my goal weight!!

When we married in September 2009 I was a size two. I'm not complaining, mind you. In fact, my issue has been the opposite of the majority. Since high school, I have always weighed in below the recommended weight for my height, which is why one of my 101 goals has been to gain eight pounds.

So how much closer am I?

My cheerleading abs have returned and I've lost a full inch in my waist, but here's the exciting part... I GAINED FOUR POUNDS OF MUSCLE!!!! I have never been excited enough to do a dance on the scale until now. I'm halfway to a healthier me and it is exhilarating.

Husband was just as excited and rewarded me with a new swim suit. He's so sweet.

Navy Vintage Floral Print Bikini via Top Shop discovered via Life's A Journal

How about you my dears? Any of you closer to a goal you've set for yourself?? Or maybe you've already accomplished one?! How do you celebrate once you've reached a goal?

I'd love to hear your triumphant tales!!

Valentine's Day--Excuse for Consumerism?

2011-02-14T20:28:00.002-06:00

My first freelance opinion piece just appeared in our university paper--perhaps an unpopular opinion, but an opinion nonetheless. Because of the topic, I thought today would be a perfect opportunity to share it.

The gorgeous simplicity of love below was captured by Harwell Photography. I discovered it via Ruffled and thought it complemented nicely, since it truly captures the essence of adoration and commitment--the important things.

As a married senior in college, my current non-academic life can be summated with the expression--love + money. I have love. I am trying to get money. As simple as that may seem, this is the time of year when winged cherubs and Tiffany catalogues begin floating in and adding unwelcome variables to the equation. While meandering the aisles of Hallmark I found myself contemplating the new solution. Could it be that love + money doesn’t just represent two large portions of my day-to-day? Could it also be that love + money equals consumerism? Is Valentine’s Day merely an excuse to validate this behavior?

My thoughts then went to my dear parents who may have it just about right. When they enter Hallmark they are armed with intentions that stray slightly from that of the general populous. Yes, they do still search high and low for the perfect sentiment. The difference is seen after the tedious selection process is completed. You see, once they have each selected a winner, they exchange, share that precious “Awww” moment, return the greetings to their respective places, and depart--hand in hand. A simple, no-cost tradition that is somehow lost in the midst of Tacori ads and Victoria’s Secret bags.

This led me to wonder, “Has our society really lost its ability to love the simple things?” Maybe it is just me, but the “lost” bit seems to stick these days. The phrase, “national disarray” comes to mind, and I have come to the realization that spelling it out with chocolate letters from Godiva isn’t going to sweeten that reality.

I am sounding like a complete killjoy, no? Let me briefly take this opportunity to openly admit that I am not a hater of all things mainstream. In fact, I happen to adore Sweetest Day. Why? Because Sweetest Day was founded on the idea of loving gestures towards the misfortunate and forgotten, and the truth is that the history of St. Valentine isn’t quite as warm and fuzzy {hint: in basically all versions, he’s killed}. Did the two holidays just get confused over the years?

Doubtful. It is more than likely that the latter has been intentionally manipulated into the multi-billion dollar industry it has become. Don’t believe me? I’ll let the numbers speak for themselves. According to National Geographic, in 2009 it was a $14.7 billion business. In the same article it was stated that in 2010 that the average U.S. consumer was expected to spend $103 on Valentine’s Day related expenses.

Before you tell me to get off my soap box and choke on my Valentine’s Day bottle of Moscato D’Asti, I would like the record to show that I do plan to celebrate the holiday this year. However, I certainly do not need to spend $103 to do so. Instead, my husband and I will be writing letters to each other that we plan to open on our fifth wedding anniversary. Total cost? About 23-cents for the paper and ink. That $102.77 savings sure will put a spring in my step and perhaps even reinforce the idea that love and money can coexist. The trick is to ensure that one variable is not dependent on the other.

Is Valentine’s Day an excuse for consumerism? It’s a free country and you can come to your own conclusion; regardless of your thoughts, I’ve got 14.7 billion reasons to say that it is...

Little White Dress

2011-02-13T16:54:00.000-06:00

With May rapidly approaching, I decided it was time to start searching for a graduation dress. Yesterday I thought I had it nailed down for sure; but, then this white little number showed up. {read: With my red hair, I'm a sucker for a little white dress.} It was love. Throw in the fact that it was about a third the price of the first dress I was considering, and I was sold!! Without further adieu, meet Kaylie. Isn't she lovely?

Kaylie via Ambercrombie and Fitch

Tried and True | Crispy Ginger Lime Chicken Thighs

2011-02-13T10:38:00.000-06:00

Our Martha choices have just been knockin' it out of the park as of late--one more for the Tried and True weeknight winners!! This chicken was so juicy and full of flavor! Combine that with the ease of the recipe, a killer crispy skin and mmm mmm mmm!!! We'll be making this again, soon!

Serves 4

1 tablespoon finely grated peeled fresh ginger
1 tablespoon fresh lime juice
2 teaspoons curry powder
4 scallions, minced
Coarse salt and ground pepper
8 bone-in, skin-on chicken thighs

Directions

Heat broiler, with rack set 4 inches from heat. Line a rimmed baking sheet with aluminum foil; set aside. In a small bowl, combine ginger, lime juice, curry powder, scallions, 1 teaspoon salt, and teaspoon pepper.
Arrange chicken on prepared baking sheet; season with salt and pepper. Gently loosen skin from each piece of chicken. Dividing evenly, rub ginger mixture under skin.
Turn thighs, skin side down, on baking sheet. Broil about 5 minutes. Flip thighs, skin side up, and continue to broil until skin is crisp and an instant-read thermometer inserted into thickest part of thighs (avoiding bone) registers 165 degrees, 6 to 8 minutes more. Serve chicken drizzled with pan juices.

We cooked the chicken for an additional four minutes, in the oven, to achieve the correct temperature. We felt that if we had continued to broil for that extra time the skin would have been overcooked. Please note, this recipe's brief cooking time is one of its main advantages, but it also means that it needs to be attended to pretty closely to get the proper result. This step will all depend on your specific broiler/oven.

If you don't already own a good digital meat thermometer, go out and purchase one. Your safety is worth far more than the minimal expense associated with that particular item! It is a crucial accessory to pulling off recipes such as this.

Another delicious, and fairly nutritious option via Martha Stewart Everyday Foods

Tried and True | Crispy Shrimp with Tarter Sauce and Slaw

2011-02-10T20:58:00.002-06:00

Ben LOVES seafood--LOVES. This had led to my endless search for an easy, but healthy, version of "fried shrimp." If you found yourself on a similar quest... search no farther! This recipe is a winner and was really easy to make. SO easy in fact that Ben did the cooking that night, and I cleaned up. It was perfect.

Serves 4

5 tablespoons vegetable oil
1 1/2 cups panko (Japanese breadcrumbs)
2 teaspoons paprika
2 large eggs
Coarse salt and ground pepper
1 pound medium peeled and deveined shrimp, tails on
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
2 lemons
Tartar sauce, for serving
2 teaspoons Dijon mustard
1/2 large red cabbage (1 1/4 to 1 1/2 pounds)--see note below
1/2 medium red onion--omitted

Directions

In the morning: Prep the beading by brushing a large rimmed baking sheet with 1 tablespoon oil; set aside. In a medium bowl, combine panko and paprika. In another medium bowl, whisk eggs together with salt and pepper.
Bread shrimp: In a medium bowl, combine shrimp and flour; toss well to coat. Working with 3 or 4 shrimp at a time, shake off excess flour, coat with egg, dredge in panko mixture, and transfer to prepared baking sheet. Cover and refrigerate.
At dinnertime: Cook shrimp. Preheat oven to 475 degrees. With a pastry brush, gently dab shrimp with 2 tablespoons oil. Bake until golden and crisp, 10 to 12 minutes; season with salt.
Make slaw: While shrimp are baking, squeeze 1 lemon into a medium bowl; whisk in mustard and remaining 2 tablespoons oil. Core and thinly slice cabbage (you should have about 5 cups), and thinly slice onion; add to dressing. Season with salt and pepper; toss to coat.
Serve: Cut remaining lemon into wedges. Serve shrimp with cabbage slaw, tartar sauce, and lemon.

Note: We used a 10-ounce bag of prepped broccoli slaw, from the produce department, and adjusted the liquid content for that portion by 50% to accommodate the change. Neither of us care for the texture of raw onion, so we left it out.

Finally, a healthy, delicious, oven-fried shrimp via Martha Stewart's Everyday Food

Tried and True | Steaks with Balsamic-Mustard Sauce

2011-02-09T20:24:00.002-06:00

Oh Everyday Food, how I love thee. Let me count the ways...

We've been nailing some real winners with our recent recipe selections. This is a great weeknight meal and is part of Martha's lovely Grocery Bag feature--which I love, by the way. We served it exactly the way she recommended {read: with her Rosemary Potatoes (we used fresh rosemary, not dried) and steamed green beans}. The meat was so juicy. Delicious, simple, and a delicious way to add red meat to the line-up without a lot of effort!!

Serves 4

1 tablespoon olive oil
4 strip steaks (each 6 to 8 ounces and about 3/4 inch thick)
Coarse salt and ground pepper
1/2 cup balsamic vinegar
1/4 cup Dijon mustard

Directions

Heat oil in a large skillet over high heat. Season steaks generously on both sides with salt and pepper; place in skillet. Cook, turning once, until browned, 2 to 3 minutes per side for medium-rare. Transfer to a plate; cover with foil.
Add vinegar to skillet; boil until syrupy, 1 to 2 minutes. Remove from heat; whisk in mustard and any accumulated juices from steaks. Serve sauce with steaks.

Mouthwatering image and weeknight deliciousness via Martha Stewart's Everyday Food

Survivin' without a computer? Impossible! Dreamin' of a Mac.

2011-02-08T19:43:00.000-06:00

"Honnnnney... the dryer's broken." -Ron White

I happen to love that section of Ron's stand up and although I wasn't calling my husband at work to lament about the dryer... he did get a call about my beloved HP Dv9000 laptop. Saturday morning after I blogged, I settled in for some serious productivity. All of a sudden my scream flashed annnnnnnnd... that was the end of my laptop.

No seriously. I could barely see the pieces of the tell-tale Windows "physical memory dump" screen when it came on. I tired to revive it in safe mode, but it was way beyond a shockable rhythm... watching your computer die is almost as dramatic as watching a patient flat-line on television. Trust me.

Enter the Geek Squad--I love them. They are so knowledgeable and helpful. While they were diagnosing my computer, husband and I meandered around the store. We noticed that Best Buy was running a zero-percent financing offer on Apple computers. Huh. Isn't that something...

After my laptop had been diagnosed for a $450 repair and data back-up (I insisted that I would pay any amount to save my stuff), husband and I departed for dinner to consider purchasing an additional computer for our tiny family of two--the logic being that I would be able to use it during the two week interval that mine would be in for repairs and husband would then have his own, the HP, for when he goes back to school.

Thirty minutes before store close we walked out with this:

13'' MacBook Pro

Armed with our new shiny box we went home and waited for the Geeks to call us back to come pick up our other laptop.

Yesterday I got the confirmation call on my HP... time of death 1605. The Geeks saved my hard-drive though and will refund part of the price based on the services they were able to render (i.e. the data back-up and diagnostic).

Rest in peace little lappy. We had a great four years, but Mac and I must be strong and move now. I know that's what you would want.

It's certainly good to be back in the blogosphere.

MacBook via The Gadget Guy

Ketchup Day

2011-02-05T11:00:00.001-06:00

Ketchup Day

{I haven't been able to keep up with my blog as much as I would like recently. Here's the latest...}

Husband and I have both been sick this week and although I was still able to go to work the entire week, my training definitely took a hit. {sad panda}
Diddy is still on the long road to recovery. I have been trying to link posts to the new page "Cats!" Keep up with his progress there. He's currently residing with my parents, so the recent posts are linked to her blog.
This is crunch time for my internship--today marks the halfway point!! With all my rotations due in March, a number of large projects on my desk, the upcoming NHA exam, and starting to think about where Husband and I may want to live when I have a career... my time has been completely dominated.
I have been participating in a book club and although haven't posted on my blog yet, I have been keeping up with my fellow members posts--so look for that yet this weekend. {I did kind of mention my participation here, but will share my actual thoughts on the read in my upcoming post}
Trying to edit one to two images a day for A + J
With illness preventing my running, I have definitely had more time to devote to cooking, so I have some great recipes to share. =)
I have been doing REALLY WELL with my New Year's Resolutions--especially improving my snail mail skills and have some related posts coming up!
And as if I didn't have enough going on... I am now doing some freelance writing for the university paper. My first deadline is for an opinion column by Tuesday, so add that to the "weekend list of things to do." I'm actually quite excited.

There you have it! You should be just about caught up.

And a special...

...to the newest readers! So glad you're here for the journey.

I'm off to tackle my giant to-do list--wish me luck!!

Lots of love to you and yours this weekend dears!

Ketchup Packet Truth via Inspire Me Now

Welcome via Hello. Hola. Bonjour.

Tried and True | Hello, Cupcake!

2011-02-02T20:35:00.001-06:00

The second installment in the "Tried and True" cookbook series is none other than the fabulous, Hello, Cupcake! If a picture is worth a thousand words than I think the cover speaks for itself--forget not judging a book by its cover... that is a completely acceptable practice in this instance.

Note: I ~~still~~ desperately need to get my hands on the newest installment, aptly titled, What's New, Cupcake?

Karen and Alan definitely deliver a winner on the cookbook front, but let's not let that overshadow the wonderful newsletter they have available--two words: Touchdown Cupcakes.

You'll be able to wow your friends at your Superbowl party this year! Make 2011 the year they'll remember by snagging the current issue {#6} to get the instructions for these adorable treats.

Bring fabulous cupcakes into your life ASAP via the:

Hello, Cupcake! Website

Hello, Cupcake! Newsletter

or either book {Hello, Cupcake! and What's New, Cupcake?}

Purchasing information links, and the images in this post, can be found on Karen and Alan's website.

Get your hands on this recipe book... it certainly takes the cake! =)

Store Fronts at Night

2011-01-31T21:28:00.001-06:00

Even the local bridal shop is ready for Sunday's big game!! My current read {The Happiness Project} and their store front inspired this little venture. I am finding that I am happiest during my creative time--especially behind a lens.

Such beauty in a small town--unnoticed while the world sleeps.

Sleep sweetly loves.

Hair Cut & Style

2011-01-30T15:03:00.001-06:00

I made a New Year's Resolution to myself that I was going to take better care of my hair this year. {It's quite challenging to keep routine appointments when you drive two hours to see your stylist.} And I am proud to announce... so far, so good--every six weeks!!

Hair cut & style done by Ashley

Loyal Luxe | Cat Cabin

2011-01-26T18:30:00.002-06:00

Tomorrow evening, husband will return from a few days at the cabin. Although I'm glad he got to take some time off, and will be happy to have him home again, why should he have all the fun?? Apparently, Loyal Luxe asked the same question...

Couldn't you just see Diddy and Ari James having a field day?? The purrrrfect cure for winter cabin fever.

Discovered via Twig & Thistle

Images via Loyal Luxe {make sure you visit their site for the adorable videos!}

Our Love Story | How It All Began

2011-01-25T18:07:00.001-06:00

Today I feel very privileged to be featured over at Love is Everywhere. Katie is so kind, and I have had so much fun going through her blog in the last week. I received the sweetest note from her after submitting our love story and couldn't restrain myself from sharing a few lines:

Hi Hannah,

Can I just say that reading the last line immediately filled my eyes with tears. I honestly just love hearing others talk about how they met and fell in love. It makes me so happy to hear such fabulous stories with all of the negativity there is in the world. I enjoy sharing these so others can see how Love is still alive.. true love still exists. Your story is a prime example of this.

Love,
Katie

For me, Katie is the example that true optimists still exist and without those how could true love have even the faintest glimmer of hope? Thank you Katie... for your optimism, for your kindness, and for your dedication to finding the "good" in the disarray. We are not so different, you and I, and even though the world can be a crazy place... I am so glad it has allowed my path to intersect with yours. Thanks again dearie!

I hope you will take a moment to check out our story as well as the rest of her blog. Looking for more love? You can view the archived love stories via the adorable icon below. Enjoy!

Tried and True | Best-Ever Pasta

2011-01-24T22:14:00.000-06:00

Don't you love finding cookbooks that are total gems? Do me a favor... just go out and buy this one, okay {read: save me the copyright infringment and wrist pain}

In addition to recipe sharing, I am going to begin adding a list of absolute must-have, two thumbs way up cookbooks to my "Tried and True" list. Enjoy the first installment!

Image and purchasing information via Amazon

New Running Shoes | Asics Gel-Nimbus 12

2011-01-23T13:59:00.000-06:00

Sorry, I've been gone from my blog for a few days. Recently, I have invested a lot of time in finding new running shoes. So, even though you could read all about them on our running blog, I couldn't help but share them on here as well since they have been the reason for my absence.

Running shoes are certainly not "one size fits all," so when it came time for me to invest I made sure I did my homework. About a year ago, my physical education instructor pointed us all to the Shoe Finder on Runner's World. Let me tell you, that little tool is a Godsend; however, before you start "finding" make sure that you're shopping for the right type.

After all of my research, I narrowed it down to two shoes... the Asics Gel-Nimbus 12 and the Asics Gel-Cumulus 12. I located the two models at my local Scheels store and made plans to go try them on. Before I went, I checked online price points and came to the conclusion that it would be the same price to purchase them in the store if I found the right shoe.

I immediately found the winner.

The Asics Gel-Nimbus 12 is everything I was looking for in a shoe {and pink to boot!}. It supports my high arches, has an off-set lacing pattern to eliminate the pressure points, is meant to go the distance, and has an incredibly comfortable foam lined interior. The inside of the shoe makes you feel like your foot is being cradled by a cloud, which is probably why they gave it the name Nimbus {I'm just saying...}.

So why the Nimbus and not the Cumulus?

Ultimately I selected this shoe over the Cumulus 12 because of the gel distribution. The Nimbus has gel all the way through the design, whereas the Cumulus boasts it in the heel and the forefoot. This means the Nimbus will offer better impact protection and more even wear for the extra $25 in price.

What should you do before purchasing new shoes?

I had such a positive experience purchasing shoes because I did the footwork before entering any stores {Haha, footwork. That's a bad pun I included just for you dear readers, aren't you lucky}. I would strongly recommend anyone in the market to study your old shoes--see how they've worn, compare price points, read reviews, make a checklist of things you're looking for in your shoe, and then hit the stores ready to find the perfect pair.

And finally, if you happen to live in an area that has specialty stores dedicated solely to running make sure you do fittings there. They will be able to offer you the best advice on which model to purchase.

I walked into a store to purchase shoes. I walked out a runner.

Image via Scheels

If you want to read more running adventures, make sure you stop by...

Obsession: Bird Necklaces

2011-01-20T23:08:00.000-06:00

I LOVE necklaces with birds. Seriously, love. I have no idea why, but I love them. My first was made specifically for me by Danielle about a year ago.

So, when I saw these pictures on facebook...

And realized Danielle had completed another...

I simply had to have it. Lucky for me, today is New Necklace Thursday at Simlie Springs, and it was still there when I took my lunch break.

It'll be in the mail tomorrow morning and on it's way to me!! So excited! Have I mentioned that patience isn't really one of my virtues? Le sigh. And now a shameless plug--SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL ARTISANS!!

{all images via Danielle}

It's In The Bag!

2011-01-19T18:33:00.004-06:00

Because I'm a full-time intern, student, and wife I completely missed the opportunity to get on A Hasty Life's master list for the blog crawl It's in the bag... big oops, completely my oversight. However, I talked to Ashley this morning {read: she's a doll if you didn't know that already} and with her blessing here is my contribution. Thank you again for the opportunity to show off my new bag, Ashley!! I should also disclose that I may or may not have promised her adorable pictures with this post... you be the judge after reading--did I deliver? But let's not get ahead of ourselves, shall we? First things first.

The bag. Tignanello. My husband picked it out about a week ago. Here's why, it's red, leather, and has the shape of an old school doctor's bag {read: it's classic Hannah}. Not only did he pick out a fabulous bag... he picked out a fabulous bag that was 70% off!! Husband for the win!

The wallet. Fossil. A godsend. Everything I want, right where I want it and red leather to boot!

Inside, the essentials.

Clinique lipstick in A Different Grape and Mary Kay lipstick in Couture Pink--my everyday shades. I turn to my MACs for special occasions
Clinique airbrush concealer
Clinique High Impact mascara, travel size
Clinique pocket mirror for touch ups
Red, leather cashmere driving gloves
A pen from my employer
Checkbook
An EMS light--because you never know when I'll need to evaluate someone's pupils {or find something inside my bag}
Red, Blackberry Curve
Car keys--defintely need a new knife and a new flashlight, we're going red this time.
Tire gauge
Lock De-icer
Tide to Go
Dryel to Go
Hand sanitizer--this time it happened to be Purell
A roller brush because I love to drive with the windows down
Redken travel hairspray 18
A few bobby pins

Not inside, but usually found there.

I had taken these out before heading to the gym. {not pictured}

iPod touch and a pink iPod shuffle + headphones
SNAP fitness card
Burt's Bees chapstick
Clinique Superbalm moisturizing lipbalm in Apricot

Inside, and usually found there, but not supposed to be there!

ARRRRRRRRRI JAAAAMES, you get out of your mom's bag!! She doesn't have any more hairbands to give you!!!

I was shocked he interferred since it was 1900. He usually prefers to shark through my bag at 0200.

"What? I iz not doing anything... I mean, anything other den what I do usually."


"I luv you, Mom. Are you mad at me?? Can I touch da camera? Oooooo dis feels more expensive den hairbandz and derfore must be more fun for LOLcat."

Oh god. Send help.
Hope you enjoyed seeing what I carry around everyday!

And The Award Goes To...

2011-01-18T19:51:00.002-06:00

My first blog award came a few weeks ago, but I have been contemplating long and hard about who it should be bestowed upon next. I figured that in light of the recent Golden Globes, now would be as good a time as any to stop dragging my feet and commit already. Here goes.

There are four duties to perform to accept this award:

1. Thank and link back to the person who awarded you this award

2. Share seven things about yourself

3. Award 15 other bloggers

4. Contact these bloggers and tell them about the award!

A huge thanks to Joelle at Love is Home for this award. I really appreciate that you took the time to honor my work over here at Survivin' on Coffee & Dreams!! You are just such a doll, and I've really enjoyed getting to know you this past month or so.

Seven things about myself?

Favorite color? GLITTER, hands down.
I wish I had more time to kayak.
My husband and I are both only adopted children AND we have the same medical allergies (weird)
LOLcats can always brighten my day
I prefer jam. It's all the safeness of jelly with all the deliciousness of preserves.
High heels... a way of life.
Why yes, I do eat all my colors every day. It's called Skittles.

Fifteen, is a pretty tall order, which is why I've been avoiding this. I've never been the type of person to say nice things if I don't truly mean them... so here's nine bloggers whose style has changed my life {in no specific order}:

Road to the Aisle --> Heather Drive I've been following Heather for going on almost two years now. Her blog was the inspiration for my own, along with many of the DIY projects for our wedding.
Diary of a Rad Housewife I went to college with Kate, but that doesn't mean we were friends while we were both there. I have watched her blog grow into the phenomenon it has become. She taught me that style and lipstick always go hand in hand.
Life's a Journal Same with Danielle. We attended the same college and had some of the same friends, but it wasn't until I asked her to make me a necklace that we really began to interact. Danielle has taught me that style lays hidden for the viewer to find. She is an incredible DIYer. No seriously. She can take the most obscure things and make them completely gorgeous.
Husband, Wife, Modern Life Style always makes time to laugh. Katie and Ross' beauty, antics, and stories have kept my days light even in the midst of a full schedule completely overloaded with classes/work obligations. Katie, Ross, and I also attended the same college {which, you guessed it, was the same as Kate and Danielle's}
Plum Thickety Place My mother. Who always taught me to wear what I love. For me, that's high heels and leather cashmere gloves. For her? Birkenstocks and hand-knit socks. =)
The Rockstar Diaries Naomi, thank you for reminding me that it is okay to embrace one of my favorite colors--yellow! You wear it so well and make such a chic pregnant woman. I aspire to be half as adorable as you.
Then I Got To Thinking Style doesn't have to wait for special occasions. Tracy incorporates it into her everyday ventures with the ease of a pro. We can all take a page from her book from time to time. Lovely.
Beauty Bets Elizabeth certainly elevated the level of style in my make-up bag!! Don't know where I'd be without her helpful tips delivered to my Google Reader!
Coco + Kelley There aren't even words, Cassandra. I look forward to your posts every day. Le sigh. So gorgeous and so inspiring.

Thank you ladies!!

Winter Engagement Shoot: J + A {Sneak Peek}

2011-01-16T20:50:00.000-06:00

Ms. A and I went to high school together. Then, I would have never dared to presume that on a day like today I would be grabbing a camera to capture some images of her and her love, J. We had a lot of fun romping around in the country and were lucky enough to get some sunshine this afternoon--even if only for an hour or so. Enjoy the sneak peek you two!! Lots more to come...

Wedding Rings

2011-01-13T21:46:00.007-06:00

I sent my ring out today to have one of the tiny stones tightened and realized I never actually shared the story behind our wedding rings, so without further adieu...

When my husband and I started talking about forever, we knew we wanted a unique piece to commemorate our love. Armed with some inspiration from Chanel, Ben met with a local jeweler and had my engagement ring designed and made. The jeweler took the time to question my soon-to-be fiance about my style, preferences, and even the size of my hands! The result? A ring made with us in mind:

Pear-shaped center stone as the focal point because 1) we're cliche like that and like to think that "we're the perfect 'pear'" 2) it is a more obscure choice with a slightly vintage feel 3) because the first ring I ever really fell in love with was the Harry Winston in Legally Blonde
Thin, delicate band because I have very narrow fingers, which I attribute to 12 years as a harpist
Separation in the band, which speaks to the idea that one is incomplete without the other

When we changed our wedding date from December to September we eliminated the possibility of having our custom wedding bands completed in time; instead, I opted for a commercial piece to complement my ring and Ben selected a durable, titanium band {pictured above with mine}, which we vowed to replace with the custom piece. Around our one year anniversary, I gifted my husband his band.

When we had first started dating, Ben and I took a little vacation up north. We were perusing the shops, when Ben said something about having forgotten the car keys. He doubled back to a store we had just left and caught up with me at the fudge place. That evening, just before dinner, he surprised me with the Claddagh ring we had been eying in the shop. A short time later he began wearing one as well to complete the set. My husband's band split while he was in an extremely dangerous house fire--even inside his firefighting gloves the temperature was so high that the ring broke. So, for his piece we had our two rings melted together and made into a lovely band that features the Celtic knot design.

"You go where wind and fire, melt together..." -Kate Havnevik

Two will be stronger than one, and now a piece of our past can come with us into the future. It is interesting to me that our rings have changed over time much like our love. It really is a quite fitting tribute.

Hers via Life & Style Photography

His via Yours Truly

Greetings

2011-01-12T22:03:00.000-06:00

Remember when I resolved to be better at snail mail? I thought you might...

For better or for worse, my husband and I are constantly striving to be different. This mentality even came into play when it came to sending a greeting. While everyone else was distributing cards before Christmas we were carefully plotting our 2011 debut.

We used Tiny Prints for this year's greeting. I've always loved their products, and was grateful to have an opportunity to order from them. I was not disappointed. In fact, I may never use a different company again. The whole process was streamlined, included updates, and resulted in a quality product--which has gotten us many compliments. {Husband and I may have just started a new tradition for us--New Year's Greetings!!} Not pictured is the space on the back, which we used to convey our well wishes in a loopy, red font reminiscent of my own handwriting. We also shared the link to this blog, so friends and family could read up on the comings-and-goings, dreamings, and survival stories all year if they so chose.

Just a few more to throw in the mail tomorrow--I was waiting on some addresses from his side of the family and a few of my friends, but I couldn't wait any longer to share these beauties here. Consider this a greeting to you, dear readers. We hope 2011 brings you many wonders and joys, and of course--good health.

I was very pleased to notice that I could cross #3 off of my 101 list and noted that this really a two for one deal as it also supports my resolution to ramp up my list efforts. YAY for regaining some of my domestic prowess!!

Golden Birthday Inspiration

2011-01-08T10:17:00.006-06:00

I know most little girls dream about their wedding day. Not me. Perhaps it was because my father is a pastor, so I was kind of "wedding-ed out" by the time my turn came or maybe because I'm an only child? I always dreamed of having Fiesta dishes for everyday use, which now we have... but that's beside the point. The important thing to note here is that people in my graduating high school class still talks about my second grade birthday party.

Fairies were one of my favorite things when I was younger, so my mom threw a fairy themed party complete with fairy scavenger hunt, tea sandwiches, and these cool ribboned circlets that we all wore on our heads. Le sigh. It was utterly fabulous. My mom always wonders how I grew up to be a high-heeled wearing/four shades of lipstick in my purse type while she's more of a hand-knit socks + Birkenstocks sort.. well, there you have it mom. My second grade birthday party was probably the turning point. Unfortunately, my birthday was usually the last day of school, graduation weekend, or the same weekend as Memorial Day, so it has always been extremely difficult to get people together for the event.

On May 27, 2014 that will all change. No gifts--I would rather people donated to charity, but formal invitations will be sent out EARLY to get the date on people's calendars. It will be a really intimate affair--nothing extravagant--just 20 or so of our closest friends and a beautiful evening full of handmade details. Now that it's 2011, I couldn't help but share my latest inspiration. It's very sophisticated and incorporates all my favorite colors--j'adore. Enjoy!!

via Green Wedding Shoes

{all vendor credits on their site--images by one of my top three fav photogs Jose Villa}

Beverage | The Perfect Chai Tea

2011-01-07T19:41:00.000-06:00

It's supposed to be dreadfully cold in the Midwest this weekend, so I thought I would pass along another tried and true recipe to keep you warm and cozy--Hindustani Chai Tea!!

Serves 7-8

Heat together in 3-4 quart saucepan:

6 c. water

7 t. loose tea

Boil 10 minutes. Add:

6 c. milk

Heat to near boiling. Add to taste:

10-15 t. sugar

Tastes best when prepared 2 or more hours in advance and set aside. Reheat during meal and serve with fresh fruit for dessert.

Obviously, if you're concerned about things like milk fat and sugar then... a) you're not me and b) you can rest assured--they would be so easy to substitute; however, it is critical that you do not cut corners when it comes to the tea. Make sure you get a really high quality, dark, loose tea for this recipe.

And there you have it! Put your feet up and sip your way to cozy.

Hindustani Chai via More-with-Less Cookbook {this should definitely be one of the staples in your cookbook arsenal--if I can't convince you, the 140 favorable Amazon reviews should...}

Adorable Tea Pot via Milana's Tumblr

Dear NARS Blush,

2011-01-06T19:58:00.001-06:00

I have been faithful to you and only you, so I am very hurt to learn that you didn't let me in on your secret.

If only I had known that putting you on everyday, instead of just on date night, would get my husband out of bed to see me off to work I would have started doing so a lot sooner!! Apparently he likes to start his day with the smile I wear to put you on.

Please don't treat our friendship with such disdain in the future.

I still love you,

- H

NARS blush in Orgasm via Barneys

City Mouse, Country Mouse

2011-01-06T19:22:00.000-06:00

There are many a day where I long for city life. I crave the hustle and bustle, baseball games, restaurant openings and the like. I'm also a serious push over when it comes to nighttime city scapes--it's the sparkle that draws me in. But then I see images like this...

and I am reminded of my country living upbringing--clean, bright, organized... When I think about where I want to raise a family I envision a similar place, complete with the comforting sounds of birds and a gentle breeze. Peaceful. I had a perfect childhood and want the opportunity to pass that on--part of my legacy if you will.

Working in the second most highly regulated industry has certainly increased the urgency behind my desire to simplify, but that has not altered my desire for some bright lights and a bigger city {read: for a short time}. Really at this point in my life, nothing is stopping me--as of August, the world is my playground. This is one of the main reasons I have been so excited for 2011 to just hurry up and get here!!!

For now, I am content with my small apartment and rural hospital internship. I mean, last night I got to see 20 deer eating in a field during my evening commute--the complete opposite of 5 o'clock grid lock.

So which are you, dear readers. City mouse or country mouse? Apparently I am "conflicted mouse..."

City Scape & Country Living via Tumblr--original untraceable

Well Wishes for Diddy

2011-01-04T19:44:00.000-06:00

My mind has been heavy as of late, and I feel that the only way to remedy this burden is to bare my guilty conscious to you, dear readers. This is CatDiddyAt--fondly know as "Diddy," "C-Diddy," or "Diddums." {My mother over at Plum Thickety Place took these shots--I edited them for this post.}

Last week his behaviors began to change. You see, sleeping with me at night is one of his all-time favorite things, but Sunday night I awakened to realize he was absent from his usual place {my arms}. Slowly I noticed other changes--apparent lack of appetite and no observable fluid intake. I asked my husband to watch him on his day off while I went to work. When I came home he reported that Diddy hadn't used his litterbox all day. I tried in vain to get him to eat or drink, but he refused and started exhibiting "guarding" behavior. With the knowledge that he was very obviously in pain and making no marked progress, we made an appointment with our veterinarian. I had the best intentions in keeping him home, honestly I did--a kitty has never been cared for so tenderly by a couple. But after learning his diagnosis it became apparent that we should have mobilized more quickly.

Upon admission, our beloved feline was jaundiced and had lost 25% of his body weight in 72 hours {read: I am a horrible mother}. He has pancreatitis.

I feel that if this had been our human child he would have been in to see a professional immediately after he stopped sleeping with me. This is where my guilt comes into play. Instead, we monitored his symptoms ourselves and tried to nurse him back to health before relinquishing his care on Thursday morning. This situation has removed Diddums from our home for six days and counting while he receives IV treatment at the wellness center.

At this time, we are asking for well wishes for Diddy. We love and miss him so much. Get status updates on his condition via my Twitter {hash tag #sickkitty}

New Year's Resolutions

2011-01-01T16:06:00.000-06:00

2010 At A Glance

2010-12-29T18:33:00.001-06:00

She started her internship...

Paid more attention to what she saw through the lens…

And ran her first 5K.

He took a job he actually enjoys…

Rediscovered his skills in the kitchen...

And dreamed of the day there would be a baby… (Or a bunny).

They rocked it,

Crashed it,

And looked to the future—together.

Optimism via That Girl Leena

Car Crash

2010-12-27T21:17:00.010-06:00

I Wasn't Ready before.

My mother has always been the one in the family that has so much intuitive capacity it can be unsettling... but not me, never me... so imagine my shock when four hours after poor road conditions had me planning a blog post on how to successfully crash a vehicle I get side-swiped.

In EMT class we were desensitized with videos, pictures, and stories because let's face it... you'd rather the people who cannot handle it walk out before they are licensed versus committing suicide after that really traumatizing ambulance run. I thought I was prepared for this. I understood the kinematics of trauma and the physiological effects of crashing a vehicle, but apparently not the psychological repercussions of being inside the vehicle at the moment of impact.

~~My husband and I had gone to the gym~~ {scratch that} I had just finished dragging my husband to the gym. We were on our way home with a gallon of milk, a loaf of bread and a box of cereal. The town we live in is ~~notorious for uncontrolled intersections~~ {I retract that as well} too damn cheap to actually put up some stop signs. I have nearly been T-boned numerous times as well as on the wrong end of a misunderstanding that resulted in my husband, my friend Cassie and I yelling in the police department parking lot while our unknown pursuer approached and an officer removed his weapon from its holster.

So, needless to say, this was a long time coming.

We were half a block from our alley, one intersection away from safety, when I saw light entering the intersection. Unconsciously I applied the brakes. Quickly I realized that the light was from a taxi van headed straight for us. There was no chance it would be able to stop with that distance remaining. It was closing fast. The roads were thick with snow and my Cougar started to slide. We were traveling under 15 miles an hour when the headlights blinded me at eye-level--inches from my face. I closed them and waited.

Minutes. It felt like seriously a minute and a half from the time my heart stopped beating, the adrenaline began coursing through my veins, the moment I knew a crash was imminent and the crash itself. In that time I did a quick pre-crash assessment in my head:

Seat was properly adjusted to support my head, neck and cushion my knees
Elbows were neutral and were not bracing for impact--a position which can result in shattered bones
No fingers were intertwined in the steering wheel--an excellent way to make sure you never use them again (if they remain at all)
Feet were placed directly in front of the pedals in a neutral position conducive to the impending crash

I was prepared. And then something caught me off-guard. A sensation on the back of my head. I opened my eyes to find that it was my husband's hand... his arm was in front of me attempting to pull me away from the vehicle. It struck. My head hit the driver's side window. My husband's knee went into the dashboard.

I sat there dazed for a couple seconds before realizing that everything I was expecting to see was absent. There was no blood, no pain, no shattered glass... nothing. We were unscathed. Because I had applied my brakes so early the van struck our tire instead of my door.

It was then that I realized my husband had forsaken his training. He had not been properly supported by his seat with neutral arms and correctly positioned feet. He had been actively attempting to rescue me from the 3,700-pound approaching threat. Part of me was flattered, but part of me was secretly conflicted--how would I have felt if he were permanently injured while trying to protect me when we had both had the training to properly protect ourselves?

This was last Tuesday night.

My heart still stops every time I approach an intersection. My breath still catches in my throat. And my heart still ponders my question in its time of reprieve... silently... because every time I close my eyes to go to sleep I see headlights. Every time I wonder what I would have done if this had been worse.

Ben & Katie's story is a testament to the ever-changing state of life, as well as the strength of a good marriage--I have been following it for quite some time now and can only hope that if this had been worse for us that we would have the same strength that they do to find light in the midst of each trial.

Hair Straighteners | A Cheap One I Actually Love?!

2010-12-27T19:02:00.001-06:00

Recently my straightener broke, so up until today I was rocking the messy sprunched look. Although it was cute--and my hairstyle of choice in the summer--I prefer a more sleek look for work. So, armed with the knowledge that I would eventually have to plunk down the money for a new one, I continued to lust after the TI Style Chrome series. This beauty has been on my "want list" for about a year {my fabulous hairstylist uses TI products}, but since this item doesn't qualify as a "need" in the Dave Ramsey plan I just couldn't justify the price tag.

TI Cruise Chrome in Silver via Hair Cutter Store

Purchase at TI Style {use offer code TISAVE for 50% off TI Style products}

I am pleased to announce that I found an alternative. Enter Remington Pearl 1-inch Ceramic Straightener

Image via Kohls

For less than half the price of the half-priced TI {I paid $35} I got static free hair that stayed styled all day today without using any hair products at all!! This is a complete first for me. Usually I have to use at least a little hair spray, root booster, or shine product to keep fly-aways from creeping up and that still doesn't mean they won't win by 4pm. Not today! My bangs even stayed in place! And you know what else? No crimp lines either. A cheap, ceramic straightener I actually like--with automatic shutoff and 15-second heat up?! I am shocked, pleasantly surprised, and knew that I had to immediately showcase this as a fabulously frugal success story.

The other thing I love about it? It tells me actual degrees Fahrenheit with digital numbers {because let's face it... besides being two less than the 25 on the dial, 23 means absolutely nothing to the average individual}. Maybe I'll get the TI once I have a big girl job, but maybe not. In the meantime, this little darling comes with a four year warranty making me one happy little shopper.

Catch Phrase | Christmas 2010 Screw-ups

2010-12-26T17:45:00.000-06:00

One of the best things about board games are the fast-paced errors. Here are some of our 2010 Christmas gathering Catch Phrase screw-ups. Warning: impressionable, elementary-aged children should be diverted from this post.

Fish have... WINGS!

Ants have (hand gesture on top of head)... ANTLERS!

Nike Slogan... (silence because my teammates didn't know it) I started trying to coach them towards the word "Just" and pretty soon it turned into the Nike slogan being... JUSTICE OF THE PEACE!

He was on top of the Empire State building... KUNG FU!

Snakes see with their... TONGUE!

Summer, Fall, Winter... WINTER!

So in basketball you go from the Sweet Sixteen, to eight, to... THE FINAL TEN!

Bring family games into your gatherings and let the laughter echo.

Image and further information about Catch Phrase at Board Game Capital

A Christmas Wish

2010-12-26T10:20:00.000-06:00

I hope you had a lovely Christmas holiday and that you don't have too many errands to attend to today {still, we all know how those seem to pile up sometimes}. If you are traveling today, please drive safely, check your tire pressures, and wear your seat-belt.

Many posts coming up!

Christmas Wish via Anthropologie

I'm Not Ready

2010-12-22T22:44:00.003-06:00

I'm not ready to share the inner workings of my mind after yesterday's car accident {read: we're fine, I promise, and in true Finley fashion we can contribute to the statistic that most accidents happen within 10 miles of home (We were half a city block. So close yet so far away...).}

I'm not ready to have an insurance adjuster coldly assess the last three years of my life and either cut us a check or walk away. That car was a gift from my now husband, then boyfriend, picked out by him and my now late-father-in-law, Ron. It was my last worldly piece of Ron, and I'm not ready to admit that. I don't have the family videos and copious amounts of pictures. I had the Cougar. And she has a name too--Allegra. So although she is just plastic and metal to them... she was a part of my family. She has been the only constant in my husband and my relationship since 2007, and I'm not ready to admit that either.

I'm not ready to admit that I am proud to drive a car from the 90s because, in my opinion, those years were so much better than where we are now.

I'm not ready to get behind the wheel again. I know how lucky we are... and I know how much worse it could have been. I know that I am blameless, but it doesn't help.

I'm not ready to return to normal meals--everything about last night makes me nauseous.

I'm not ready to go back to work, smile, and pretend that everything is fine. It isn't.

I'm not ready to close my eyes tonight and see headlights.

I'm not ready to say anymore right now, but there is so much more to say.

I'm just not ready. Can that be okay for now?

Allegra

Define: Interesting

2010-12-20T19:33:00.003-06:00

Since I am an intern/wife/soon to be graduate, I am frequently asked to identify "one or two interesting things" about myself to be used in various mini articles, announcements, etc. Is it just me... or is "interesting" a rather subjective concept?

But in all seriousness, if we all found the same things "interesting" it wouldn't be a very "interesting" world now would it? What are your thoughts? Do you find that question as difficult as to answer as I do?

Adorableness via LOLcat Pictures

Give the Gift of Memories

2010-12-19T20:40:00.001-06:00

Still looking for that last minute perfect gift inspiration? Give gifts that will be used daily and become part of a tradition in themselves. Your friends and family will thank you not only Christmas Day, but for many years to come. Gifts that allow the recipient to create and/or preserve memories never sit on a shelf and collect dust--they're too much fun!

1. All great ideas seem to come at the most inopportune moments (like in the shower). Enter Aqua Notes. Simply jot down that thought for later! $6.99 at Aqua Notes
2. Looking to create memories of the perfect dinner party or holiday celebration? Stackable Oven-to-Table Cookware by Christian Bjorn makes it easier than ever to entertain with the best of them. Go from freezer to microwave/oven to table like a pro. $118 at A+R Store
3. If you're like my husband and I, some of the simple moments lead to the most lasting memories. One of our favorite places to spend time together? The kitchen. With this Bowlboard by Ute you and your loved ones will be slicing and dicing your way to happily ever after in no time. $69 at Yanko Design
4. The One Line a Day five-year memory book is a simple and stylish way to make memory creation a daily tradition in your household. $32 at Amazon

5. Two left feet? Don't worry about it! Ballroom dancing lessons can help anyone discover their inner-dancer. Give the gift to your spouse/significant other and begin making memories by making this a routine addition to your monthly date-night. Wow your friends with your new found skillset at weddings and parties--sure to make a memorable impression. Price depends on geographic location and studio.
6. Time to upgrade that digital camera? Perhaps it is! Give the gift of a camera, or photography classes, and your loved ones will have all the tools they need to preserve memories for years to come. Canon D-SLR via Best Buy, price depends on model.
7. Still looking for the perfect cocktail glasses for those newly married friends of yours {read: or maybe even yourself...}. They'll be making memories for years with these beauties. $18 Mr. and Mrs. highball at Furbish Studio
8. Camcorders are the ultimate memory creating devices. Enough said. Various models via Best Buy, price depends on model.

Hope this inspires your last minute holiday shopping!!

All images via their respective vendor. {image #5 source untraceable}

"The Dream"

2010-12-15T18:48:00.004-06:00

As the title of this blog indicates, my existence perpetuates because of two very simple things: 1) coffee and 2) dreams. Since the year is coming to an end, I wanted to take a moment to share my husband and my favorite short film from 2010 so appropriately titled "The Dream." Every time I get stressed out from work, depressed by the weather, or frustrated that the laundry has piled up, in spite of my best efforts, {again!}, I can sink back and enjoy the three minutes of sheer bliss it delivers. Le sigh. Make sure to enjoy its perfection in full screen.

"The Dream" - A {Style Me Pretty} Inspiration to Reality Film from Matt Davis on Vimeo.

The Blog Button Debate

2010-12-14T21:42:00.000-06:00

Today I finally caved and put together a button for this blog--mainly because I'm going to be posting over on BYM on the Run much more in the upcoming weeks {read: I thought Andrea and Maggie's buttons looked a little lonely and could use a friend}. Now we just need Ange to get a blog... hint hint Ange.

I'm not sure how I feel about the whole button thing. If I wasn't blogging in two separate places, I probably wouldn't have one, but anyways... there it is--the code is in the right sidebar if you want to add it to your site.

Do you have a button? Or do you feel that they belong on shirts and jackets? And so begins the great button debate of 2010... voice your opinion now!

A Big Day

2010-12-13T21:03:00.000-06:00

It's a very big day over on our Big Yellow Mansion blog, and you should check out the news!! I can honestly say that I haven't been this excited in a long time!! Click the button to head on over to my latest post.

Lots of love from Wisconsin on this 13th day of December.

Snow Day

2010-12-11T11:47:00.000-06:00

Ari James has always been quite an adventurous soul, so I knew I had to give him an opportunity to make some kitty snow angels in today's fresh powder.

His brother Diddy is quite a bit more cautious... and wanted to go back inside almost immediately.

After a morning in the snow, there is nothing like a green treat to keep kitty healthy! I would highly recommend this Pet Greens Garden to anyone with cats who enjoy devouring the lawn. It is an excellent way to bring some summer back into their little, furry lives.

What a successful kitty snow day!!

How are you enjoying the snow?

Holiday Baking | Chocolate Cookies

2010-12-10T21:43:00.001-06:00

Some of you may not know what you're getting for Christmas, but I do. Hubby and I aren't exchanging gifts this year {read: Dave Ramsey says Christmas isn't an emergency and therefore not part of the plan and I don't think I need to reiterate how responsible we've been... but there it is in case you forgot (or just joined the saga)}. So needless to say I know what I'm getting from him--> all his love forever.

From the parents? On both sides we've asked for a KitchenAid mixer. So we know that post-Christmas there will definitely be a KitchenAid for baking. In preparation we made sure to pick up some new Pyrex bowls and a Pyrex liquid measure. The first thing we plan on baking? The answer to that is easy and brings us to our first Tried and True cookie recipe.

Chocolate Crinkles

Makes 5 or 6 dozen

1/2 cup vegetable oil

3 (1-oz.) squares unsweetened chocolate, melted

2 cups sugar

Beat together well.

4 eggs

2 tsp. vanilla

Add one at a time, beating well after each addition.

2 cups + 2 Tbsp. flour

2 tsp. baking powder

1/2 tsp. salt

Sift together, and add.

Powdered sugar

Chill dough several hours or overnight. Drop by spoon into powdered sugar and roll into balls, coating well. Place on greased baking sheet and bake at 350 degrees for 10 to 12 minutes.

Do Not Overbake!!

Chocolate Crinkles via Mennonite Country-Style Recipes & Kitchen Secrets

Pyrex via Macys

The Dress | Session Preview

2010-12-09T20:08:00.000-06:00

Want to see our session preview??

You're going to have to go to April's site for that... she currently owns the images. =)

LOVE HER!!>

The Mentor and The Muse

2010-12-09T19:16:00.001-06:00

Having a mentor is a crucial part of any young professional's development. I am blessed to have a preceptor who is knowledgeable, kind, and realistic to guide my understanding in a less than idyllic industry. Before I woke up this morning I had a mentor in her... but now, now I have two. I don't believe that any person can have all the support they need in one other, so this new mentor is a welcomed addition to my inner circle.

We'll call him Mr. J--my thesaurus. Up until today we have exchanged a number of e-mails... e-mails about nothing, something, and everything in between. I have solicited advice. He has fed off my enthusiasm for blogging {and as someone who was a reporter for a number of years why shouldn't he want to enter the blogosphere?!}. During a round this afternoon we discovered our mutual love for mocha while planning a coffee shop face-to-face. The following then ensued...

Me (Ms. H) : MOCHAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your mentorship has clearly been serendipitous.
Him (Mr. J) : Now it’s my turn to blush—with the fact that I don’t know what serendipitous means… LOL. Just kidding. Mentorship might be a bit strong, though… lol.
Ms. H : Mentor // A wise and trusted counselor--okay so maybe the wise thing is a bit strong--you're right--but you've already conceded to the existence of the trust element. ;-) And you have counseled me as a writer. 2 out of 3 isn't bad. =)
Mr. J : Hmmm, I hate to concede the point, but you’re right. I’ll just have to work on the wisdom bit. If I am your mentor, then you are clearly my Muse.
Ms. H : I'll try to live up to the honor =)
Mr. J : I would say you already have, considering the recent creation of my first real blog: "the goddesses who inspire the creation of literature and the arts." Okay, goddess might be strong, but it's payback for the whole "wise" thing.

I had that coming didn't I?

Artistic Hands via I'mNeal

Raise of the Mug: Maggie

2010-12-08T15:43:00.000-06:00

You've met Ange and Andrea, but now it's Maggie's turn. Maggie was my connection to the Big Yellow Mansion, and for that I am eternally grateful. We weren't even friends when I heard she was looking for a fourth roommate for a new lease. With my impending homelessness on the horizon I struck up conversation about the place. She told me I should come tour and meet Andrea... I didn't even meet Ange until the lease signing; the rest... history. When Maggie announced that she wanted a picture of all of us outside our beloved mansion on her wedding day I was ecstatic {to say the least}. She has such great ideas. =)

Maggie met Nate, survived his deployment--while purchasing a house together, got engaged, graduated, married, secured a "big girl job" and all in about two years time!! That's a lot of life changes for anyone, but I have to give Maggie mad props for adjusting so quickly. Raise of the mug to Maggie for allowing love--not society--to control her life timeline, and for saying yes to a red-haired stranger when she could have said no. Thank you dear.

**Mags also recently got a chance to tell Coulee Region Women why she logs on to a blog. Pick up a current article to read her thoughts and then head over to her blog.

This is Love

2010-12-07T17:39:00.001-06:00

You may be saying to yourself That's not love... that's a pair of really worn work boots. But you'd be oh so wrong.

When those size 13s make the 50-minute commute from their house to yours to stand on your back porch railing {because you don't have a step ladder} and make sure your battery warmer is properly installed so that you're beloved Cougar will start every day in the cold {because you don't have a garage either}... that is love. Thanks Dad--your footprints all over my railing and yard... j'adore.

Are there certain things in your life that symbolize love dear readers?

Christmas Parade

2010-12-06T20:02:00.001-06:00

Saturday night, the husband and I headed out to run some errands before the arrival of my parents. As we passed the bridal shop we looked at each other quizzically... Why are all the dresses in the window red, blue and white? It is December isn't it?! At that moment, the stop light turned green and we continued on our merry little way.

Once my parents arrived, we bundled up and trudged down to the parade route. As it started we made a few side comments about the apparent patriotism in this small town... but as it continued we ~~felt like complete morons~~ quickly realized that the parade was intentionally themed. See for yourself.

Statue of Liberty stuffed in a McDouble, Uncle Sam, Flag-caped Frosty, Lady Liberty presiding over baby Jesus' birth {Check, check, check, check!} Gang's all here!!

These three were my personal favorites:

Recreation of flag raising at Iwo Jima with fire juggling cub scout following.

St. Josephs Hospital elaborate little medic tent

"I'll be home for Christmas" Soldier backed by family on the other side of the tree. Very touching--and well lit!

Does your town have a Christmas Parade? Do you go?
What did you think of the choice to do a patriotic Christmas parade?

Trimming the Tree

2010-12-05T09:48:00.003-06:00

This is Crazy Owl. He is my husband's 2010 Christmas ornament of choice--the little guy is still quite traumatized from his photo shoot {enter Ari James}. Below is Maude, my ornament. He is apparently less interesting to our felines. Unlike me, their mother, glitter seems to have no effect on them--Maude is actually covered in the stuff.

I get really excited about trimming the tree, planning the theme, and decorating to Christmas at Luther music. Last year's tree was silver and blue, and I absolutely loved the ribbon we used; nevertheless, we decided we didn't want to do the exact, same thing two years in a row. The perfect solution? We reused our silver ornaments and purchased some gold ones. This year's tree is metallic yet has a somewhat rustic handmade feeling. I completely adore it {but am also really excited to use ribbon again next year!}. We love this year's ornaments so much I have a feeling that we will be purchasing some gold ribbon in 2011.

My ornament and hubby's ornament on our second Christmas tree =)

We also brought the metallic feeling into our kitchen with these square place-mats.

And to our coffee table with this little tree.

A very successful, and very shiny, tree trimming.
Do you have your tree up yet? We'd love to see pictures of what you did this year!!

The Perfect Wife

2010-12-03T18:03:00.000-06:00

Today, I really feel like the perfect wife. I accepted a scholarship...

Selected, brought home, sawed, and set-up our Christmas tree, all by myself...

And all before husband got home for work! YAY!!

It was really brisk here in the Midwest today, so I was extremely thankful for my faux leopard neck wrap and also my hand-knit glovettes. The glovettes are the perfect accessory for keeping a my hands warm and fingers available for manipulating camera features.

These were made for me by my mother over at Plum Thickety Place. They are going to be great to wear to the Christmas parade tomorrow.

What did you do today dear readers?

A Wish For Wings That Work

2010-12-02T22:33:00.000-06:00

I have been watching this every holiday season since 1991. We taped it on VHS when I was a child {read: my mom had to take my red-violet Crayola color crayon and make a star on the label so I would be able to distinguish it from all our other tapes when I wanted to watch it}. This was when they still had Shake 'n Bake commercials, Nintendo 64 was the coolest thing ever invented, and the 7-Up "dots" where really good at holiday decorating. Imagine the elementary aged pastor's daughter running around school asking if this was the meeting for "Cockroach Cross-dressers in Crisis." Hilarity.

Now that the VHS is worn and tracks terribly, I can thank my phenomenal parents for making sure I will have a holiday filled with laughter every year courtesy of the DVD upgrade I received as a gift last year. Best. Gift. Ever. I fully plan to perpetuate this viewing tradition for years to come.

You can snag a copy here, which is also where I got the image.

Be joyful! Be merry! BE CAREFUL!!!

2010-12-01T20:15:00.000-06:00

So now that you're hanging that perfect wreath and decking all the halls, I feel that it is my civic duty to make sure no one utters those above words and spends their holiday injured in the Emergency Department.

Please remember your common sense while decorating this holiday season.

Yes, I realize the shiny is distracting {trust me}, but as your stepping back to admire your handy work make sure you check off the following items:

Is my tree blocking an exit I may need if there were a fire?
Are any of my decorations attached to or supported by electrical appliances?
Is more than 10% of the wall/door covered with combustible decorations?
Am I using more than one properly insulated extension cord to reach the outlet?
Is my adapter usage reasonable (ie you don't have your stove, microwave, and refrigerator plugged in to a 3-1 adapter to make room for your Christmas tree on that same outlet)?
Are my mini light strings plugged directly into the electrical outlet?
Are my advent candles/tapers/votives all placed where pets cannot knock them over?
Did I check my light sets for frayed wires, loose connections and broken sockets before using?
Do I have nails or staples through light cords?
Is there an appropriate extinguisher (that isn't expired) accessible? AND does everyone in the household know how to use said extinguisher?

These seem ridiculously obvious, but trust me, they're not. People get blinded with the lights, glitz, and glamor and forget about safety. Safety first people. And if not safety first for you... how about safety first for your neighbor?

Glitzy Wreathy Fabulosity via A Field Journal--Check out the beautiful glitter village over there!! Le sigh.

Christmas Inspiration

2010-11-29T20:53:00.003-06:00

The hubby and I just hung our holiday wreath, and I must say... it is quite the traditional beauty. Big red bow, real pine boughs, and pine cones nestled in just so. I've always been a sucker for a high quality, traditional wreath, but the Holiday issue of Sweet Paul Magazine has me thinking otherwise...

So perhaps next year we'll deviate from tradition, but for now we'll add some pizazz to our holiday with this lovely beverage...

While we cozy up in sweaters... {why shouldn't everything else?!}

Le sigh. Heaven.
Holiday Cheer via Sweet Paul | View the issue

Flat Shoes ?!

2010-11-29T18:44:00.003-06:00

Mark your calendars ladies and gents. Not only did I purchase flats... I wore them--to work. When shopping at Tanger Outlet with the girls I decided that I needed a colorful alternative to heels now that it is getting a little icier outside. Usually it is hard for me to find comfortable flats since I have arches built for heels; however, these Naturalizer flats were just the ticket, and I love those festive little bows!! They seem so holiday appropriate. =)

Consider them a fabulous, little insurance policy on my skull. Damn you Wisconsin winter.

Pretty peace of mind via Famous Footwear

{I got them cheaper at the outlet than they are online--HUZZAH!}

Baby Shower

2010-11-28T09:47:00.009-06:00

I recently attended a fabulous baby shower {read: but of course failed to bring a camera}, so now that the hostesses have made photographic proof available I thought I would take a moment to comment on the lovely event. The mother-to-be was gorgeous, the food was delicious, no detail was overlooked...

In short, it was clearly a labor of love, which I thought was fitting since that is exactly what the mother-to-be will soon be experiencing with her first born. Before parting we shared a prayer over mother and baby. Then the hostesses distributed votive candles to all the guests with the following message:

With the flicker of this candle's flame, say a prayer in Baby's name.

What a wonderful way to celebrate mother and child! I was delighted to have been able to attend such a beautiful shower. Wishing the new family all the best as they anticipate the arrival of their daughter, and certainly a big thanks to the hostesses for all their preparation! A lovely preface to the Thanksgiving holiday.

DISCLAIMER: {And I'm not just saying all this because there were truffles... lots of truffles, but now that we're on that topic and just in case you were wondering... yes there were truffles, no they did not sway me to write this post. Good, everyone clear about the truffles?}
=)

Thanksgiving Menu | Triple Chocolate Pumpkin Pie

2010-11-26T16:53:00.001-06:00

This Thanksgiving I was commissioned with bringing the dessert. I know how much my family loves a good 'ole traditional pumpkin pie, but I'm just not a fan. Enter Martha Stewart. Thank you dear Martha for this delicious, decadent recipe. It was the perfect complement to dinner--due to its subdued sweetness and wonderful notes of ginger. Read all directions before starting and make sure you'll have extra milk on hand!! This pie was a hit with guests of all ages. Enjoy!

Serves 12

FOR THE GRAHAM CRACKER CRUST
2 cups finely ground graham cracker crumbs (about 16 crackers)
3 ounces (6 tablespoons) unsalted butter, melted
1 tablespoon granulated sugar
2 tablespoons packed light-brown sugar
1/2 teaspoon coarse salt
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
3 ounces bittersweet chocolate (preferably 61 percent cacao), finely chopped

FOR THE FILLING
6 ounces semisweet chocolate (preferably 55 percent cacao), chopped
2 ounces (4 tablespoons) unsalted butter, cut into small pieces
1 can (15 ounces) solid-pack pumpkin
1 can (12 ounces) evaporated milk
3/4 cup packed light-brown sugar
3 large eggs
1 tablespoon cornstarch
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 1/2 teaspoons coarse salt
3/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
3/4 teaspoon ground ginger
1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg
Ground cloves
1 ounce milk chocolate, melted

Directions

Make the crust: Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Combine graham cracker crumbs, butter, sugars, salt, and cinnamon in bowl. Firmly press mixture into bottom and up sides of a deep, 9 1/2-inch pie dish. Bake until firm, 8 to 10 minutes.
Remove from oven, and sprinkle bittersweet chocolate over bottom of crust. Return to oven to melt chocolate, about 1 minute. Spread chocolate in a thin layer on bottom and up sides. Let cool on a wire rack. Reduce oven temperature to 325 degrees.
Make the filling: In a large heatproof bowl set over a pot of simmering water, melt semisweet chocolate and butter, stirring until smooth. Remove from heat.
Mix pumpkin, milk, brown sugar, eggs, cornstarch, vanilla, salt, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, and a pinch of cloves in a medium bowl. Whisk 1/3 pumpkin mixture into chocolate mixture. Whisk in remaining pumpkin mixture until completely incorporated.
Transfer pie dish to a rimmed baking sheet, and pour pumpkin mixture into crust. Bake until center is set but still a bit wobbly, 55 to 60 minutes. Let cool in pie dish on a wire rack. Refrigerate until well chilled, at least 8 hours (preferably overnight). Before serving, drizzle melted milk chocolate on top. Serve immediately.

Thanksgiving dessert perfection Martha Stewart

Images here, here, here, and here

In the Spirit of the Holiday...

2010-11-26T16:02:00.004-06:00

I couldn't help but pass this along. Wouldn't it be great to have this kind of greeting at the terminal while traveling for the holidays? {I'll admit I went from laughing to getting a little choked up... to openly sobbing by the third time I watched it} Enjoy!

Photography :: New Page

2010-11-26T12:07:00.001-06:00

Survivin' on Coffee and Dreams has a new page! It is a place for me to grow as a hobby photographer and share what I have been working on. Check back often to see all the latest--I'm shooting another engagement session in the next month!!

Thanksgiving Menu | Cream Cheese Potatoes

2010-11-23T21:28:00.004-06:00

The second installment in a perfect Thanksgiving menu... an amazing mashed potato recipe!! {We were so excited when our reception venue agreed to make these for our wedding brunch.} Drum roll please...

Serves 8

Note from Susan: "I always make these for Thanksgiving. If you have any leftovers, they'll keep in your refrigerator for 2 weeks and they are so good formed into patties, dipped on flour, and fried in butter.

9 large potatoes, peeled and halved
2 - 3 oz. pkgs of cream cheese--we usually just use an 8 oz. package
1 cup sour cream
2 tsp onion salt
1 tsp salt (I use garlic salt)
1/2 tsp pepper
3 Tbs. butter

Cook potatoes in boiling , salted water until tender. Mash them until smooth. Add the remaining ingredients and beat till light and fluffy.

NOTE from my mother: If Hannah is eating these potatoes then this recipe needs to be doubled or she will poke you with a fork if you try and take them from her. To double this recipe we alter it slightly and use a total 8oz. of cream cheese, 1/2 tsp. of pepper, and 1 stick butter--double all other quantities.

Potato Perfection//the best, most beautiful cookbooks you will ever own via Susan Branch

Thanksgiving Menu | The Perfect Turkey

2010-11-22T19:57:00.008-06:00

Now that I have returned to the blogosphere and before I mention anything else that has been going on in good 'ole Wisco, need I remind you that today is Monday... and Thanksgiving is Thursday. So you need to get going on finalizing that perfect Thanksgiving that you're going to host. In the spirit of the season I have a little gift for you dear readers. Today, you get the perfect turkey recipe and tomorrow I'll give you the mashed potatoes {read: so you'll still have two days to go snag any grocery items you don't have on hand}.

We've made this turkey for years now, so it's certainly tried and true and has earned the honor of being the first recipe to be featured in my blog's Tried and True Recipes segment. Sure to please everyone, and don't leave out the gravy! It's worth every wine-soaked, butter-laden calorie.

Serves 8 to 10

1 1/2 cups (3 sticks) unsalted butter, plus 4 tablespoons, room temperature
1 bottle dry white wine
1 fresh whole turkey (14 to 16 pounds), rinsed and patted dry
Coarse salt and freshly ground pepper
5 red onions (about 2 pounds), peeled and quartered

Cheesecloth

Cranberry Glaze-- Makes about 1 1/4 cups

1 tablespoon unsalted butter
1/2 shallot, finely chopped (about 2 teaspoons)
2 fresh sage leaves
1 teaspoon whole juniper berries
1 cup fresh or thawed cranberries
2/3 cup pure maple syrup
2/3 cup apple cider, plus more if needed
1/2 cup red-currant jelly
1/4 teaspoon coarse salt
Pinch of freshly ground pepper

In a medium saucepan, melt butter over medium heat. Add shallot, and cook until translucent, stirring occasionally, about 2 minutes. Add sage leaves and juniper berries; cook, stirring, 1 minute. Add cranberries, maple syrup, apple cider, jelly, salt and pepper. Raise heat to medium-high, and simmer until cranberries are soft and starting to burst, about 3 minutes.
Transfer cranberry mixture to a food processor, and puree until smooth. Pass puree through a fine sieve into a small saucepan.
Return glaze to stove, and simmer gently over medium heat until it has thickened, about 10 to 15 minutes; you should have about 1 1/4 cups. If glaze seems too thick, thin it with a little apple cider. Keep warm until ready to use.

Pan Juice Gravy-- Makes about 1 quart

Reserved pan juices from turkey

2 cups chicken stock, preferably homemade, or low-sodium canned chicken broth
1/3 cup all-purpose flour
Coarse salt, freshly ground pepper to taste

Pour pan juices from roasting pan, discarding any solids, into a fat separator. You should have 4 cups of pan juices, including 2 cups of fat. Pour pan juices into a medium saucepan and bring to a boil over medium heat, leaving fat in the fat separator. (If you do not have a fat separator, pour liquids into a tall quart-sized container and remove fat from liquid with a ladle.)
In a quart-sized mason jar, combine chicken stock and flour. Shake well to combine.
When pan drippings have come to a boil, slowly whisk in chicken stock mixture. Bring to a simmer. Continue to whisk until gravy thickens. Season with salt and freshly ground pepper. Keep warm until serving.

Directions

Preheat oven to 450 degrees with rack on lowest level. In a large saucepan, melt 1 1/2 cups butter; add white wine. Turn off heat, leaving mixture on top of stove to keep warm. Fold a large piece of cheesecloth into quarters; cut it into a 17-inch, four-layer square. Immerse cheesecloth in wine mixture, and set aside to soak.
Place turkey, breast side up, on a clean work surface. Fold wing tips under turkey. Season cavity with salt and pepper.
Fill large cavity loosely with 7 to 8 cups stuffing. Tie legs together loosely with kitchen twine. Stuff the turkey neck cavity, fold neck flap under, and secure with a bamboo skewer. Rub turkey with the remaining 4 tablespoons butter, and season with salt and pepper.
Remove cheesecloth from liquid; squeeze lightly, leaving it very damp. Spread it evenly over breast and leg area.
Arrange onions in a large, heavy roasting pan. Place turkey on top of onions; transfer to oven, and roast 30 minutes. Reduce oven temperature to 350 degrees. Pour a quarter of the wine mixture over cheesecloth and exposed parts of turkey; continue roasting 2 hours more, basting every 30 minutes.
When all the wine mixture has been used, remove the cheesecloth and discard; continue cooking until an instant-read thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the thigh (avoiding bone) registers 155 degrees. about 40 minutes more.
Brush the turkey with the cranberry glaze, coating completely. Roast turkey 10 to 15 minutes more. Brush turkey again to coat, and continue cooking 10 minutes more to set the glaze (the turkey should register 165 degrees..
Transfer turkey to a carving board; let rest about 30 minutes before carving. Reserve pan juices for preparing gravy.

Saliva-inducing recipe//image via Martha Stewart

Out & About

2010-11-16T10:54:00.002-06:00

FOCUS 2010: Conference

"Striving for Excellence in Challenging Times"

10th Annual Conference for Health Care Providers and Division of Quality Assurance Staff

{Agenda}

// will return to the blogosphere Monday, November 22! //

Raise of the Mug: Andrea

2010-11-14T08:03:00.001-06:00

(L) Ange (R) Andrea

Andrea picked up her entire life to leave us and the Big Yellow Mansion back home to pursue her graduate school dreams and east coast living. I admire her courage, her writing, and her ability to be the best at friendship even though she is the farthest away. Shortly after moving out east she was offered not one, but two different, big girl jobs. Of course she navigated the negotiations with all the poise and eloquence I expected, and ultimately ended up making the best decision for her career. I applaud her for not allowing dollar signs to derail her from her dream.

Andrea also manages to continually impress me with her snail mail skills. I seriously aspire to her in this area {it's actually going to be something I will be blogging about soon}. She is the only person who actually mailed us an anniversary card on our one year anniversary, made sure to send me a copy of her new big girl business card as soon as she had them, and also sent me a business card from DC Cupcake because she thought I would find it adorable--and want to place it in my business card holder {read: I did!!}. Andrea's words, actions, and general hilarity make her an amazing lady to be around. She has even forever stolen the love of my husband and out of all my girl friends earned the title--one of his favorites. {I think he misses her almost as much as I do!}

She recently redesigned her blog, and I find it so freaking adorable I could just vomit. Raise of the mug to you Andrea... to all your accomplishments, mannerisms, and just generally being the best friend that Ben and I know. You make us aspire to be better friends ourselves. Congrats on your first 10K today dear!!

Wedding Dress

2010-11-13T12:10:00.002-06:00

Allure style 8593 images by Life & Style Photography

You... dreamed, fretted, loved, and ultimately said yes to...your wedding dress. But what do you do with it after the clinking of china, the chimes of wedding bells, and the laughter of the day begin to fade away?

Well, if you're me you:

hang it in your bedroom.

rock it at an industrial location with your husband and get the hem COMPLETELY filthy{read: images are being edited!}

THEN allow it to fill a role just a precious and magical as the day you were married.

My husband and I have decided to have a professional turn my wedding dress into our child's christening gown someday. Yes, we realize that process involves a scissors, but shouldn't something so beloved hold something so precious for yet another momentous occasion? We certainly think so.

Dear dress, For now I will have you cleaned and will pack you away. But know that you will forever be my"twirly dress" and someday you will hold our greatest joy. Love, H.

Nesting

2010-11-11T19:40:00.000-06:00

The time change, my impending cold, the frigid chill that meets me in the morning all make me want to engage in more nesting--and nesting causes me to seek elements that I love.

Shiny
Zebra
Yellow/Gray

Style via Apartment Therapy

Omicron Delta Kappa Burrachos Fundraiser Tonight!

2010-11-09T08:52:00.001-06:00

A quiz for you dear readers:

Q: It's Tuesday and you want...

a) Delicious Burrachos

b) More delicious Burrachos paid for with a $25 gift card

c) An answer to the question, "What's for dinner?"

d) To be able to support a worth-while organization

e) All of the above

If you answered, "e) all of the above" you're one smart cookie! Go to the head of the class, print this flier, and bring it to Burrachos on Water Street, Eau Claire, WI tonight from 1600-2000.

See you there!

Wanted: Cupcakes

2010-11-09T06:20:00.000-06:00

Required: made from scratch, delivered to my door, delicious, and gorgeous.
Desired: full of fruits and veggies that taste like chocolate.
Serious offers only.

Loveliness via Melissa Lund Photography

Potato Crab Chowder

2010-11-08T18:45:00.000-06:00

{Posting this recipe per Andrea's request}

Potato Crab Chowder

1 cup frozen hash brown potatoes

1 package (10 ounces) frozen corn

3/4 cup finely chopped carrots

1 teaspoon dried thyme leaves

3/4 teaspoon garlic-pepper seasoning

3 cups fat-free reduced-sodium chicken broth--I like the Swanson's Organic

1/2 cup water

1 cup evaporated milk

3 tablespoons cornstarch

1/2 cup sliced green onions

6 ounces crab meat--we used 12 ounces

We also added about a Tablespoon of butter 'cause, it's seafood... soooo the calories from butter are implied... right?

Place potatoes, corn and carrots in slow cooker. Sprinkle with thyme and garlic-pepper seasoning.
Add broth and water. Cover and cook on LOW for 3.5 to 4.5 hours.
Stir together evaporated milk and cornstarch in medium bowl. Stir into slow cooker. Turn temperature to HIGH. Cover and cook 1 hour. Stir in green onions and crabmeat (plus the butter if you feel like adding that as well).

Makes 5 servings

Image :: recipe via Slow Cooker Recipe Collection {Publications International, Ltd.)

This 3 in 1 cookbook has been a nice addition to our collection. You can purchase it here.

What Sundays Feel Like...

2010-11-07T11:08:00.005-06:00

I wish Sundays felt more about the important things--like spirituality and my family--instead of "the day God gave us full-time working people to catch up on stuff." Every Sunday, I race around doing laundry, writing papers, and trying to prepare for winter. One of these days I'm going to have to designate Sundays as a day of rest and worship {read: put it in my planner in Sharpie pen}. Perhaps after my internship??... and therein lies the problem.

A sheriff in my hometown was known for saying, "Why do today what you can put off until tomorrow?"

Well, I'll tell you why. Because life is short, it's precious and passes us far too quickly; however, as of late, I constantly find myself prioritizing my career over everything else, and it isn't even my career yet.

I am not the licensed NHA. I do not have to come in on the weekends. I do not have to stay overtime.

Logic then suggests that I should have time for these things in my life. But we all know I won't unless I make time for them. And so, today I take the first step towards recommitting my life to the important things that I have, up until now, indefinitely placed on the back-burner--assuming they would be there tomorrow.

Today, I will make time to appreciate my family--even if that extends only to my husband and our two cats.

Today, I will make a healthy nutritious meal and share a prayer with my husband before eating it.

Today, I will force myself to take fifteen minutes to put my feet up and be thankful for everything that God has blessed me with in life. Too bad it isn't warmer here today because I think this girl has the right idea...

What better way to appreciate life then barefooted in a swing with a camera to capture life's precious little moments.

If I were asked this morning what Sundays feel like, I would have had to respond, "Devoid of all the right things and full of all the wrong ones."

I challenge you to ask yourself the same question. What do your Sunday's feel like? I would love to hear your response.

Images via F lorence and Thayane {on Tumblr}

Raise of the Mug: Mi Padre

2010-11-07T07:21:00.000-06:00

Since my father is a pastor, I figured a Sunday mug raise would be a great way to honor his presence in my life.

There is kind of a running joke in our family... you see, my mother confronted me one day asking my why my father has this wonderful collection of Hallmarks with varying signatures on them from the many years of father's days and birthdays which have taken place during my life, while she does not. I stated simply, "Whenever I asked you what you wanted for your birthday or mother's day you always said something along the lines of 'Nothing, you is enough.' Well... Dad always said, 'A card.'" =)

So, I thought it only fair to give mom her mug raise first--pay back for all those years of missed cards, but that does not mean my father has not earned one.

I feel like my husband has to labor daily to live up to the lifestyle my father gave me growing up--big shoes to fill and all {read: hubby wears a 10.5, father wears a 13}. When I say lifestyle, it is not indicative of wealth as we were not wealthy, by any means; but, when you endure Midwestern winters every year having someone, like your father...

let you park your car in the garage
get up early to shovel the walk so you didn't have cold feet when you got to school
start your car so you would have more time to do your hair and the car would have adequate time to adjust to the -20 degree temperatures
build a nice fire so the house would be warm for you, your mother, and the kitties
go out hunting--in aforementioned freezing weather--to bring home meat for the family
change your oil because it was due even though his back was hurting from cleaning out the gutters

you rapidly learn to appreciate it once it isn't there anymore. I guess hindsight is 20:20 after all.
I still regularly turn to my father for advice {read: he is a consumer reports connoisseur}, support, and BIG hugs--my husband is 5'9'' while my father is 6'2'' with much longer arms--making him anatomically more suited to the task. See?

Raise of the mug to you, Dad, and all your efforts to keep your lil girl safe, warm, and well-fed in big scary world.